HELP ME!!!!!

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Registered: 01-07-2007
HELP ME!!!!!
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Sun, 01-07-2007 - 2:18pm
ok. well there is this girl that i think is super HOT!! and she is. She isn't bi or a les, can anyone help me in how I could get her to makeout and go further with me!!!! PLESAE HELP ME!!!!

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Registered: 04-23-2006
Sun, 01-07-2007 - 6:11pm

Hello and welcome.


Unfortunately while we can often give advice about how to handle a relationship issue,

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Registered: 11-22-2006
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 5:11am

Hi there...

I agree with Caly on this one. People are who they are, and if you're sure she's straight, she's straight. Let her be true to who she is.

Turn your attention to finding someone who will be more receptive to your advances & with whom you can have more thatn just an experimental fling.

Best wishes!
~Storm

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Registered: 01-07-2007
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 8:03pm
thank you so much for your response and advie
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Registered: 01-07-2007
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 8:05pm
well i actually hate to say this but I am straight. I have a boyfriend and I do not like girls. But whenever I see her I always think of having sexual encounters with her and I feel weird because I am not in to girls. It is only her, I go to an all girl school and whenever I see the girls I do not even look but whenever I see her I want to just grab her and makeout....do you know what this could be? Could it be my hormones?
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Registered: 04-23-2006
Tue, 01-09-2007 - 7:17am

HI again!


Yes it could very well be your hormones, since you obviously are fairly young and your feelings only seem to be for this one girl.

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Registered: 01-07-2007
Tue, 01-09-2007 - 9:23pm
actually, i am young, but i have been with my boyfriend for about 1 years and 4 months and he is my first boyfriend. But i do not know what to do, should I tell her? or should I keep it a secret? I don't want to risk our friendship but I do want to do something with her.
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Registered: 04-23-2006
Wed, 01-10-2007 - 7:22am

If you tell her straight out,

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Wed, 01-10-2007 - 3:28pm

Welcome to the board! It's sure hard to figure out what to do with these kinds of feelings when you're young and just discovering how love feels. I'm not sure from your posts whether or not you want to have just a fling with this girl or possibly a relationship. Like Caly said, you have to figure out whether or not she's interested in you.


You have a couple of choices: 1. Tell her how you feel (but not in a pushy way; rather, that you have feelings for her but want to be her friend and hope you won't risk

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Registered: 01-07-2007
Wed, 01-10-2007 - 8:08pm
yes, that does help me. I mean she is currently a junior, do u think i should tell her she is a senior, when I will never be able to see her again? I dont know what to do because I want these feelings to go away and everytime I see her they just get stronger.
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Registered: 01-07-2007
Wed, 01-10-2007 - 8:13pm
I just want to have a fling with her and my b/f does not mind. Do you think i should tell her at a time where i will never see her again. I just don't want everyone to think i like girls because honestly i only think one is pretty and my mind dozed. Thank you.

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