Meeting up with an ex yay or nay?

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Registered: 07-23-2003
Meeting up with an ex yay or nay?
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Fri, 02-23-2007 - 10:04am
Tomorrow I am meeting up with my ex and maybe her girlfriend. I don't know if she has the same girlfried and when the three of us were together. What do you all think of that? She sounds great on the phone and she cound have said no if she wanted. Am I expecting too much? Then again I don't know what I'm expecting. I'm not moving to Toronto and I don't plan on a long distance relationship. I just want to go back to writing letters. We used to write so many letters. It didn't even matter if we were in the same room lol.
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Registered: 11-16-2005
Fri, 02-23-2007 - 10:18am

Hmmm...not sure about this one. I can't tell if you're wanting to get back with your ex or are concerned about staying in contact with her and feeling awkward around her new girlfriend. If you are wanting to get back with your ex, I'd shy away from getting together with her and her girlfriend because you don't want to stir up trouble and you don't want to put yourself in the position of getting hurt.


I guess you have to weigh all of this out and figure out whether or not you can have a friendship with her without jeopardizing her relationship with her g/f. Does she know how you feel? How would she feel about having a relationship with you through letter-writing?


That's a tough one. Be careful and let us know what you decide!


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Registered: 07-23-2003
Mon, 02-26-2007 - 1:54pm
Well I didn't get to meet her fiance (my heart dropped when I heard that - I guess I secretly wanted to get back to get back to gether) despite the fact that I told myself all I wanted was to write letters to each other like we used to before. Well I'm going to write her soon and invite her to share my letters with her fiance and I hope we all can have a friendship. And BTW I had an axcellent time there.
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Registered: 11-16-2005
Mon, 02-26-2007 - 4:19pm

Sounds like a good plan for now. I hope it will work out for all of you.


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Registered: 07-23-2003
Fri, 03-02-2007 - 5:17am

thanks Ting.

Here's what I've got of her letter so far,

It was nice to see you. I've been thinking about you since the day we parted, but don't worry I'm not going to run in and ruin your relationship. I respect you too much to destroy your happiness.

to be continued...

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