someone help me

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Registered: 03-08-2007
someone help me
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Thu, 03-08-2007 - 11:52pm
Okay I am 15 almost 16......please if there is any nice lesbain or bisexual girl or women.....I have questions....and also it would be nice just to have someone to talk to

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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: am_i_bi19
Sat, 03-10-2007 - 8:48am
When I was about your age I had crushes on girls instead of the boys in school.
I still went out with the boys in order to protect my image, yuck! But I was like you. unsure of what was happening.
I talked to my health teacher and she told me it was a phase and that some people grow out of it and some people don't. So I did not worry about labling myself as gay until I got out of highschool.
I did know inside though that my crushes and loves were for the femaloes and not the males. When a boy would kiss me I felt nothing, no sparks. When I imagined it was one of the girls I had a crush on it helped feel better.
I hope this helped a bit.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Registered: 03-12-2007
In reply to: am_i_bi19
Mon, 03-12-2007 - 5:32am
Hi there well at your age I thought I was possessed and prayed constantly, I often asked God why am I attracted to girls, why do I have this evil in me...but in time I later excepted it coz i realised that's how God made me. I know at this time you don't want to feel like an outcast amoung your friends if you told them how you feel and from personal experience don't tell them yet rather have a a freind that you are close to and you guys understand eachother and you know will never judge you no matter what...that's the person you can tell about your atrractions to girls and she/he will be sort of freaked at first but will be understanding aswell. So don't worry you'll be fine!

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