A Love Just for You?
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A Love Just for You?
| Wed, 03-21-2007 - 10:03pm |
Everyone on this earth has wanted a secret lover. Someone they can share everything with but WANT to keep private. I know I do. Someone so special that you protect from harms way. It maybe just me but i know somewhere one of you agree...i hope lol. TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK.

I don't want a secret lover.
Hey Candi,
To be honest I am just the opposite.
I have to agree with the others here...I wouldn't want a secret lover. When you find your true love like I have, you don't want to hide it. Everyone's needs and desires are different, though. Hope you find the happiness you are looking for!
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I've had a lot of relationships where my past girlfriends either didn't want to be seen with me, because they were ashamed of themselves. Anytime I have to hide the person I would date, then I have no reason to be dating her.
I would walk down the street with my chest thrown out and a big smile on my face. Of course, that's just me.
Sebastian
Hugs,
Sebastian
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Instinctively, I don't want any relationship to be a secret. I want to live my life openly and with pride. For me, the need to keep a secret is born out of fear, and I don't want to live in fear. But I sure do understand the kind of love that wants to shied from pain and harsh judgement. I can understand wanting to hide away from the world in your own cozy arrangement. But I am a social creature, and I wouldn't last long with my secret love. I would feel distant and disconnected from other relationships that are important to me.
Hope that gives you another perspective..
Cheers! Celia
Nope, I think there are enough secrets in the world in general.
A secret lover?
In what way?
Is the lover a secret because of difference in color, class or religion?
Is there a secret lover because one is already in a relationship and looking to find a way to get out of the relationship?
Or maybe a secret lover is conjured up within the relationship to spice it up? Pretend to be different individuals and hooked up like it was the first time again?
Or maybe a lover holding all your bright and dark secrets to make you feel safe and warm till eternity?
What are my options for a secret lover? *smile* I’ll like to know before deciding if I want a secret lover. *grin*
Sarah