Would You Ever?

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Registered: 03-15-2007
Would You Ever?
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Sun, 03-25-2007 - 10:12am
I'm a bisexual woman. 19 years old, silly, funny lively and positive. I've gone on countless message boards even watched t.v. shows where lesbians said they would never date a bisexual woman.... They would however befriend one. As a few of you may have read my other posts where i've gone to say that i've never went to lesbian bars or clubs. It pisses me off to GUESS that lesbians would look at bisexuals as a "warning sign". I don't know how true it is but maybe you lesbians can clear this up....WHY DON'T LESBIANS DATE BISEXUAL WOMEN?
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Registered: 09-29-2003
In reply to: bi_candi
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 7:16pm
Hi Laurie Hon.. I can't say I know enough about Bi females..(Only having been labeled one kinda for a bit.. LOL) but.. Don't you agree that Lesbian and straight as well can be a

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Registered: 09-29-2003
In reply to: bi_candi
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 7:30pm
secondly, i am not upset...how can you tell a person's emotions on the message board? thridly, she was bring me down as a bisexual saying i have STDS....and you repect that? crazy... if i wasnt upset before i am now.

I didn't say you were upset.. I just felt this could be discussed amongst us without conflict..and I still say it should and can.. I also do not think it's turned to a you hateing Laurie thread.. I did not think that at all and am sure no one else did.. Also I do not take from what Laurie said about STD's as pertaining to you having them.. She was talking in general not about you Hon.. I do hope you will not get offended and stay here and post more.. I rather like your topics and your poetry.. I agree with you that Bi sexuals should have the same respect on boards as Lesbians or Transexuals as long as they are being respectful.. And yes to answer your question I think at times one can tell a persons emotions by the words they use in their post.. I know so far we all out here pretty much all the time know what the other is relaying in their words..
(((((Hugs))))


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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: bi_candi
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 7:30pm
LOL, I never said you have std's I said bi-sexuals are in a higher risk group! Seems you have selective reading comprehension.
It also seems you don't want real answers, just fluffy we will date you answers.
You threw this question out here now be ready for what you asked for.
Laurie
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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: bi_candi
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 7:45pm
Yeah you are right in that aspect cat. But my doctor said it is not as easy to pass std's from a female to another female that is all. But yes, I see your point. I do not want to make someone feel like odd man out.
The question was would you DATE a bi-sexual and no I would not. Just me personally.
I don't hate her but if she wants to hate me so be it. I am no loss to her anyway. She does not know me.
I do see your point though cat. I would not like it for someone to make me feel like the odd man out no.
But the fact is in answer to her question, my answer is no.
But you never know what would happen in the future. If something ever happened to Sheila and I and I was head over heels for a bi-sexual woman and she for me well, you never know. I guess like my mom say's then never say never.
Just not right now, lol.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Registered: 09-29-2003
In reply to: bi_candi
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 8:03pm
((((((Warm Hugs Laurie)))))))and.. Hello's to Sheila and Your Mom..


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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: bi_candi
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 8:37pm
Thank you cat and same to you and ~S~.
Laurie

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Registered: 11-22-2006
In reply to: bi_candi
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 8:49pm

Candi...relax.


You asked for opionions and were given them.

Spring SiggyBlinkie
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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: bi_candi
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 9:23pm
Hi Storm,
I agree with what you said. I have friends who are into different things as far as relationships and sexuality are concerened. It does not mean that we are not friends. We just do not mingle in the bedroom together or date each other. It is as simple as that. We do talk about our relationships and get along very well. I do not look down at them and they do not look down at me, (as far as I know, lol). I did not even say that I would not date someone who has been with a man before because I have but they identified as lesbian now. Well when I dated them.
Laurie

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Registered: 02-15-2004
In reply to: bi_candi
Mon, 03-26-2007 - 1:22am


Hello candi,

If you've been lurking, you know that my name is Sebastian and I'm a transexual female to male. I have dated a bisexual woman and our relationship was honest and we communicated with each other about our sexual partners. I always got hurt by her, not to mention I was jealous that she would leave me to go to a man (ironic, huh? lol!). I still love her, but she wants to be with a biological guy, and not me. But, I don't take it personally.

Before my transition, I always dated bisexual women and I couldn't get it through my head, that they would always go back to a guy. And, it hurt very much. If I dated a lesbian, then that was great! As was stated several times, everyone has their preference. Me? I prefer a woman that wants me, regardless of my genitalia

I just know from my personal experience, it's no fun falling in love with someone that has divided feelings. I do accept anyone that accepts me. Personally speaking, I think bi women are hot. I know that I got burned one too many times, and I refuse to wait until it's "my turn" and hear about the man in her life.

Confusing? Well, you'll understand.

Hang in there and please,stick around.

Thanks,

Sebastian

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Registered: 03-15-2007
In reply to: bi_candi
Mon, 03-26-2007 - 9:49am
wow a lesbian that's willing to sleep with a transexual...you're lucky.
big ups to you sebastian.