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| Sun, 03-25-2007 - 10:12am |
I'm a bisexual woman. 19 years old, silly, funny lively and positive. I've gone on countless message boards even watched t.v. shows where lesbians said they would never date a bisexual woman.... They would however befriend one. As a few of you may have read my other posts where i've gone to say that i've never went to lesbian bars or clubs. It pisses me off to GUESS that lesbians would look at bisexuals as a "warning sign". I don't know how true it is but maybe you lesbians can clear this up....WHY DON'T LESBIANS DATE BISEXUAL WOMEN?

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SarahMcCoy1985@yahoo.com
Welcome, Sarah! I've seen a few of your posts and just wanted to say Hi and glad you're here! It's great to have so many new faces.
Hi Sarah!
Glad you made your way over!
Hey, Sarah, I was umping a high school softball game Friday afternoon. Saturday I was at a local college. I do mostly high school and D-2, D-3 colleges. In the fall, I do some Big East games, D-1, but I cannot get away from my job to travel to UConn, and Syracuse, etc. In the spring and summer, I do a lot of club games and tournaments.
I do a smattering of boys Little League in the spring and tournaments in the summer, as I consider this part of my community service.
This is my passion and I have probably been doing it much longer than you have been alive! I never tell anybody on the field that, because you know in a heated moment they will ask why you haven't gotten any better after all these year. :)
The best line I ever got was at a district playoff game for high school and I had called about 5 really close plays in a row. There was sort of a quiet in the crowd when a man called out very clearly and said, "Lady, if you was a horse, we woulda shot you." Even I had to laugh.
You can imagine that I have been called every derogatory name in the book and there have been more that one reference to my sexuality. I feel like I have pioneered for those who have come after me. I always do girls games U-12 and up, so that they can see competent (at least I think I am) women in positions of power and see that you can endure adversity with aplomb. I always handle myself professionally, with quiet confidence.
What position do you play? It would be fun to umpire your games. I would even do it for just beer money or nothing. :) :)
There are hardly any women umpires. You should think about it.
How can girls believe that anything is possible when there are not enough women showing that anything is possible through their leadership? I hate to sound like some sort of feminist, but it is time to break up the good ole boys club. Women can do anything that men can do. All we need is to be given a chance.
I play shortstop and occasionally catch. I have a pretty good arm and I swing the bat pretty well. I have been playing since I was about eight. Later this month, I will celebrate my 22nd birthday, so I have been in the game for about 14 years. I played high school ball and I played college ball. I was not the best player in college, but I had a lot of fun with it. Now I play in a women’s league. I am the youngest player in the league. The league consists of women from around 23 up to 35. I love softball.
Perhaps I will umpire games when I am done playing. A person cannot go on playing forever, but through umpiring, I could still remain around the game.
I am in my first year as a school teacher. I graduated from college in August of last year. My intention is to continue my education beginning next fall.
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