looking for friends

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Registered: 03-29-2007
looking for friends
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Thu, 03-29-2007 - 10:11pm
Im a soft butch 1/2 spanish/filipino.. In northern cali looking for friends to chat with.
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Registered: 03-25-2007
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 8:34am

WOW. Thanks for the info. I think that, although I am a Christian, I share some of your beliefs. I believe that we are all(evry living thing) connected to and are a part of in some way, the world. I think that the ripple of the water made by a child throwing a stone into the water in New Zealand will eventually have some effect on me. I respect Mother Naure in all regards. I am glad that we can't harness the wind, water, and fire.
You have a very cool website.

I chose the wolf as my spirit guide many years ago. I even had my own secret ceremony so my family wouldn't think I was nuts. There are pictures and posters up all over my room at work. When a child asks me about them, I tell them that them that I am going to share part of me with them and that they should not laugh(middle schoolers will do that from time to time). The wolf is a perfect animal representing me. She is strong, self-reliant, athletic. She raises and protects her young. She is a social animal that lives in families. They only hunt to eat, never for sport. They mourn death. They fight to the death when cornered and have a don't eff with me persona(I don't do this part so well). They are free in the wild. They endure adversity with strength. I used to say that they mate for life, but I am having seconds thought, so I dropped that part.

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 04-23-2006
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 7:03pm
Hey Blue, I think that is soo cool about your Wolf Totem.

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Tue, 04-03-2007 - 7:46pm
How do you know the right things to say? You always make perfect sense.
BLUE DIA
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Tue, 04-03-2007 - 10:31pm
hey....... Your job sounds like fun.. Im sorry bout your friend tho..that is really hard..
You just have to accept yourself and be who you are and not worry what other people think..Your true friends will accept you and so will your family. It might take time for some of them...But if they truly love you it will all work out...You have to be true to yourself...
When I was younger I would of never guessed I would be a lesbian...I was like NEVER!! but then I had an ex brother in law..Really nice wonderful guy..He died of aids..and then I thought I have to find out....try it..and then viola...lol.. It took a couple of years..to be "out" but I met friends who said if they don't like you because of who you are, too bad..you don't need em anyways..and you can't always please everyone, have to please yourself. I mean at work if I feel comfortable, Ive told other people, and some can tell..
anyways..sorry for going on..
andie..
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Tue, 04-03-2007 - 10:32pm
hey..thanks nice pic, cat...where you located? =)
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Tue, 04-03-2007 - 11:00pm
Hi Andi.. *Smiles... Thanks on the pic comment.. I forget at times it's there.. and I was wondering for a short bit what you were refering to... LOL.. But then again I can go that way anytime... LOL ..meaning I do tend to be forgetful at times and kinda topsey turvey.. I am located in Northeast.. In Ma...I complain about the winters but love my lil town although it is kinda getting full up with other Lovers of my lil town it seems..LOL


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Registered: 04-23-2006
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 6:51am

*whispers..."its the little yellow hat they give me."

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Registered: 03-25-2007
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 7:12am

My job ROCKS!!
Thanks for the advice. It is an ongoing process, but isn't life in general?

When you head back into the workforce (take your time), what will you be doing?
Isn't being with your sister's kids great right now? I'm sure you are a big help to her and she really appreciates you!

BLUE DIA
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Wed, 04-04-2007 - 7:20am
whispering back....are you sure it's not the voices in your head helping you? lol
BLUE DIA
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Registered: 04-23-2006
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 5:34pm
ROFL!!!

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