Bi now, lesbian later? (I'm new here)
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| Sat, 03-31-2007 - 4:53am |
Hello everyone, I'm new here. I was searching online for a forum where I could just talk to someone.. anyone.
I am having a rough time right now. I have come out as being bisexual to mostly everyone in my life. I am okay with that. I know that I have been torn over my sexuality since I can ever remember. However, I still don't feel certain about being bisexual.
I have been dating a guy for almost two years now. I love him dearly. But it seems with every passing day, I feel less and less attracted to ... well.. men. I know that I love him, but at the same time I feel like I'm holding something back when I am commited to him. I can't help but fantisize about being with a woman...
I need help. I am so stressed and depressed over this. I don't know who I am.
Is there any advise out there? Has anyone else gone through something similar?
--Genevieve

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Sarah
Bring it on Sarah! Couldn't have said it any better.
I, myself, am such a mutt, that when people or the students ask what my nationality is, I always say American. Now, if you all out there have a particular pride in your family's nation of origin, I say that's wonderful. When I traveled to the Great Britain, though, nobody asked me about my heritage. They just called me Yank.
I agree with the previous posters...most of us have gone through something similar.
Can I just borrow your description, Storm? We sound so similar.
In my case, I have to admit thinking I must be bisexual when I first started seriously questioning my attractions. Looking back, I have to wonder if it wasn't just the smallest of possible steps for me, in
Storm, this sounds like me except that I am the beginning of the NEW adventure. I have been in my present relationship for many years. You know, it's been somewhat of a release, although it is scary. Wherever I am, I am always looking for someone (not a guy). It is so weird. I'ts definitely not the old me. I am hoping to settle myself down soon.
Right now I would consider myself bisexual, but who knows in the future. Confusing right now.
Hazy Blue, right now.
Sure, Nony, for the low, low price of seven blue m & m's, you may use the copyrighted description of me.
*huge grin*
~Storm
Awww, {{{Blue}}}
You'll be back to your bright blue diamond self soon!
Thanks, Storm.
"Today is where my book begins and the rest is still unwritten."
That's how I've started living and THAT is how it is going to end.......but all will be written.
Ooohhhh...I LOVE that song.
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