Bi now, lesbian later? (I'm new here)

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Bi now, lesbian later? (I'm new here)
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Sat, 03-31-2007 - 4:53am

Hello everyone, I'm new here. I was searching online for a forum where I could just talk to someone.. anyone.

I am having a rough time right now. I have come out as being bisexual to mostly everyone in my life. I am okay with that. I know that I have been torn over my sexuality since I can ever remember. However, I still don't feel certain about being bisexual.

I have been dating a guy for almost two years now. I love him dearly. But it seems with every passing day, I feel less and less attracted to ... well.. men. I know that I love him, but at the same time I feel like I'm holding something back when I am commited to him. I can't help but fantisize about being with a woman...

I need help. I am so stressed and depressed over this. I don't know who I am.

Is there any advise out there? Has anyone else gone through something similar?

--Genevieve

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Registered: 03-25-2007
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 7:41pm

Yeah, I like that song. I own it, saw her sing it at the Oscars, and watched her win. I have 99 of her recordings, her own and covers. I have not downloaded Brother Bear 2 yet, cause I am pissed at iTunes, and I am looking for her demo CD, and Happy Xmas. Just like her music. I work out to it, but never play it at work. Well, once in awhile I play "Piece of My Heart" and get away with it, cause my students don't know the difference between her and Janis Joplin. :)

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 04-26-2007
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 10:22pm
That's hard to guess. For me, yes. For you, I guess you will have to wait and see. Write back and lets talk.

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