attracted to my boss

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Registered: 04-02-2007
attracted to my boss
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Mon, 04-02-2007 - 11:32pm

Hi everyone,

I am looking for advice... sort of. I have a boss who is about my age. We are both in LTR's, and have a lot in common. We have struck up a friendship over the past few years, and she has become a close and treasured friend. I have been with my partner for over a dozen years, and love her and am dedicated to her and our life. I can not imagine being unfaithful to her, or risking what we have. Recently, I have had a few erotic dreams about my boss, Julie. I never really felt attracted to her before, which is why I think we bonded so well. It has been a very long time since I have had a close friend, as between work, school, family and my partner, I don't have a lot of time for other social stuff. So I have really valued Julie and the time we have had together. Now that I have had these dreams, I find myself feeling, I don't know, tingly around her and wondering what it would be like to kiss her. I don't want to lose our friendship, but I am trying to avoid her right now because I don't want to say or do anything stupid. This is made harder, because she has some stuff going on right now and I know she could really use a friend. Am I crazy?Overreacting? Just plain goofy? What do you think?
Thanks, Sami

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Fri, 04-06-2007 - 9:04pm
Hi Blue,
I do hope things work out in your best interest. I am so sorry about your love cutting you off like that.
It must really hurt.
I hope you figure it out soon.
Laurie
Hugs.
Laurie

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