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| Wed, 04-04-2007 - 6:15pm |
Hi Everyone,
Im fairly new here, but I have noticed that you guys give great advice so hopefully I could get some.
I've been dating my girlfriend for a year now and everything is great. We both want to get married and even set a date. Now heres the problem: My family doesn't know. They know were great friends and that she's gay but they don't know were dating.
See before her, I was in a relationship with a man. We were together for two and a half years, and everyone thought we were going to get married. We broke up, not because I wanted to be with a girl instead but because things weren't working out. Well, my girlfriend now,used to work with me and she helped me through the breakup and we were really close friends. But then I stated to fall in love with her. I love her so much and I can't imagine living without her, she just makes me so happy. But my family is also very important to me and I just don't know what to do.
I don't want to keep it a secret, its not fair to me or to her. Its not like Im coming out and want to date girls. I want to get married, she is the most important person in my life, I love her so much and I feel that if I don't tell my family soon, that she will leave me.
I know that telling family is really hard, and that everyone here has probably gone through it or is thinking about it, hopefully you will be able to help me out. I don't want to loose my family, but I also don't want to loose someone that I love so much either.
Thanks,
M

Hi M!
I am glad you found the board,