confuse

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Registered: 04-30-2007
confuse
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 3:15pm

I have been with my childrens father for 10 years. Lately (4 Months) I have not been able to perform sexualy. I have been faking my orgarms. I do not want to cause him any pain. I started a new job and there is a woman that for some reson I can't stop thinking about her. I now she is lesbian, because other workers have told me.

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Registered: 11-16-2005
In reply to: azul2007
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 4:02pm

Welcome to the board, azul. Many of us have experienced what you're going through. I'm sorry it's been tough with your DH. I hope you can work through your issues with him while at the same time figure out your feelings for women. Have you talked to a counselor about this? I've found therapy to be a great way to sort out my feelings.


Best of luck to you, and I hope you'll stick around, so we can get to know you better!


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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: azul2007
Tue, 05-01-2007 - 2:26pm

Hi,

Have you had a happy marriage up to the time you mentioned or was there always something not quite right?

If there were problems in your life - the sexual one or otherwise, then fantasizing about your co -worker could just be your way of distracting you from the bigger issues.

Sorry I don't mean to give you an interrogation, just it would be easier to answer if we knew more of the background.