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| Mon, 04-30-2007 - 3:15pm |
I have been with my childrens father for 10 years. Lately (4 Months) I have not been able to perform sexualy. I have been faking my orgarms. I do not want to cause him any pain. I started a new job and there is a woman that for some reson I can't stop thinking about her. I now she is lesbian, because other workers have told me.

Welcome to the board, azul. Many of us have experienced what you're going through. I'm sorry it's been tough with your DH. I hope you can work through your issues with him while at the same time figure out your feelings for women. Have you talked to a counselor about this? I've found therapy to be a great way to sort out my feelings.
Best of luck to you, and I hope you'll stick around, so we can get to know you better!
Hi,
Have you had a happy marriage up to the time you mentioned or was there always something not quite right?
If there were problems in your life - the sexual one or otherwise, then fantasizing about your co -worker could just be your way of distracting you from the bigger issues.
Sorry I don't mean to give you an interrogation, just it would be easier to answer if we knew more of the background.