what do i do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-01-2007
what do i do?
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Sat, 05-05-2007 - 10:38am
like i said in my previous post i can't find i'm a closeted lesbian cuz of wherei live in the deep south.. if i had lived elsewhere i would have been out by now...i use to be able to handle being closeted when i was younger..But, as i get older it has been more difficult for me..in all my life and this might sound werid to some ppl, i have only dated one woman so, i know what being a lesbian is and know about the sex..but, i still feel like av irgin in many ways..there's this woman i work with who i think might be bi, and iam attracted to her. do i take the risk and come out out to her and see what happens or do nothing..?
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Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: twomoods
Sat, 05-05-2007 - 11:07am

Hi again,


We are never one to pry here at the board because we always want everyone to feel safe, but since I know so many people here who hail from Georgia, The Carolinas, and Tennessee for starters, it would be helpful in giving you information if we at least knew what state you lived in.

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Registered: 05-01-2007
In reply to: twomoods
Sat, 05-05-2007 - 11:32am
hi ting,ty for answering on purpose i didn't say where i live cuz, i'm so paranoid someone will find out it's me and it will aff ect my workinhg life..but, i'll take a chance and say where i live..i live in southern florida.. i know some of you don't think of it as the deep south but i do..
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: twomoods
Sat, 05-05-2007 - 11:51am

Hey TM!


As I said I never want anyone to feel unsafe but I am pretty sure Florida is a big enough state

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: twomoods
Sat, 05-05-2007 - 1:24pm
Caly, you're so good with research, you should think of developing and publishing a resource book pertaining to lesbian life in US.
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Registered: 11-29-2004
In reply to: twomoods
Sat, 05-05-2007 - 4:12pm
I agree Eastie! Caly and Ginnie have a talent for knowing the unusual. Imagine that!

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halo

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: twomoods
Sat, 05-05-2007 - 5:16pm
LOL actually my dream job would be researching things for people on the internet if there was a way to make a career of that.

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