Letting Go

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Registered: 03-25-2007
Letting Go
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Tue, 05-08-2007 - 6:24pm

I am a wreck about my friend, Michele. Sometimes I want to cry and sometimes I am really angry at her. This is the one who said, don't write, email, call, text. She seems so nice professionally, but GOD!!! I just want to go to her room and say "can we talk?"I can't seem to let her go. I know times heals, but not fast enough. Any suggestions out there?

Blue

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Registered: 09-29-2003
In reply to: bluediamondldy
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 2:27am
Somehow Blue..after that last post you wrote...

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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: bluediamondldy
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 7:58am
I will be there to catch you before you fall if you let me Blue. Just stay here and vent or use e-mail.
We are all here to help.
Laurie

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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: bluediamondldy
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 8:02am
I have heard of Chicken Little, but no Sharon Little... I hope you had a pleasant evening.
Hugs,
Laurie
Laurie

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In reply to: bluediamondldy
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 9:07am

I totally agree...unfortunately in this day and age, you can't be too careful.


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Registered: 03-25-2007
In reply to: bluediamondldy
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 7:30pm

Thanks, Cat
Back pocket, front pocket, wherever it will slide in easily and stay put. Money, id, earbuds, etc. I carry my cell and my ipod on my belt. My straight friends insisted that I carry a purse for the whole feminine mom thing, and I tried for awhile. It was not meant to be, however. Not real butch here, just comfortably so for me. ;)

Blue

You gotta see the red dress, though. It throws everybody off!

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 03-25-2007
In reply to: bluediamondldy
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 7:32pm

K, Laurie, thanks. SHE was at lunch today. I think this is all me just having a hard time. I am seeing her more and that is what I thought I wanted, but it drives me crazy not to be able to talk to her. Very professional, very proper, yeah, well, in my mind VERY BS!

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Blue

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 09-05-2006
In reply to: bluediamondldy
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 8:07pm

Hey Blue,


I am so sorry that you are going through all of this. You have gotten some wonderful advice and I do wish we could all make it go away. You asked if anyone had been through something like this, I was going to give you a little of my story, I don't know if this is what you were looking for, but I will give it a try.


I was also married, and I have an 11 year old son. I also work with my xh. We lived in a very close knit subdivision and there was about 10 of us that did everything with each other. I had been unhappy in my marriage for a long time and my dh knew this and he was unhappy too, but we went to counseling and continued to try to make it work, but I had checked out years ago so to speak, I wasn't happy, having sex with him was doing my wifely duty, that wasn't fair to him... and it did hurt his feelings... but back to that. I was very close with one of my neighbors, who was also married but had some butch quality's that I was just drawn to her but didn't quite realize what was going on. I always knew I loved to watch woman and I put if off to jealously, etc. This girl had been in a relationship with another woman at one point.

Brenda

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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: bluediamondldy
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 9:56pm
Yes, unfortunately that is the way it is these days...
Laurie

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http://homepage.mac.com/lauriedav/PhotoAlbum1.html http://hometown.aol.com/didoangst/myhomepage/photo.html
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Registered: 03-25-2007
In reply to: bluediamondldy
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 10:11pm

Okay, all I can say is wow. It was not long at all. It was an incredible read. You have been through it all. I feel like I'm whining. My friends that I tell are fine with me. Of course, I have chosen wisely so far, but one........
The thing about my friend being scared has been brought up to me by others and at first all I could see was me and my mistake in telling her. The more I think about it, I gotta admit that you may be right. Of course, only time will tell.
I am very grateful for your story. First, you make me feel normal. Second, it's just such a comfort that really rocky things happen and people survive, move on, and lead happier lives. Don't go anywhere, I am going to need you in the future.

Thanks and hugs to you. I hope the recall wasn't too painful.

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 09-29-2003
In reply to: bluediamondldy
Sat, 05-12-2007 - 3:14am
Well ...From your posts out here... even picturing you in a red dress doesn't fit for me....Weird how we get our own mental image of people by their words in their posts out here before seeing pics of them or get descriptions.. Sometimes after ...

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