Thurs, Thoughts......Lesbian in Training

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Thurs, Thoughts......Lesbian in Training
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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 7:16am

Ok All,

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Sat, 05-19-2007 - 3:40pm

Thank you Caly...you are such a sweet person and Miss Ting is, too. You are such a great couple!!! My ideas about what mommies and daddies did came from soap operas that my grandmother watched LOL Must be why I can be overly dramatic sometimes :P Thank you for making me feel welcome :)

-Leaf

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Sat, 05-19-2007 - 7:30pm
LOL! That Blue, is how I feel about it. But, they are out there...
Hugs,
Laurie
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Sat, 05-19-2007 - 9:07pm

I enjoyed reading your post. You have a good outlook. I was once certain that I was gay. But now I'm not so certain. I could be bi. I could be a lesbian. I may marry a man again. Who knows... I think what is important is that you share your life with someone who truly loves and respects you. All the other stuff are just attributes. Just my humble opinion of course.

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Sun, 05-20-2007 - 12:01am
Hey Thanks chmod...I have many many stories from all my years LOL.. So many

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Sun, 05-20-2007 - 10:14am

LOL...ah...she looks smart...That makes me think, I don't really believe that I want a girlfriend that is smarter than me (that really leaves me with a small list here!!! LOL)and I don't want one that is bossy either. I've had enough of all that from the men LOL I would like someone that I can't feel is a complete equal and that we can decide everything together. On the other hand, I want to be the one to do the spoiling :) Does that sound silly?

-Leaf

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Sun, 05-20-2007 - 10:32am
Nope doesn't sound silly at all.

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Sun, 05-20-2007 - 10:46am
Hi Leaf,
That sounds pretty normal to me. Except I like equal spoiling.lol...
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Laurie
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Fri, 05-25-2007 - 11:48am

Thank you so much for starting this tread. I had started a discussion a couple of months ago about coming out to parents. Luckily, I finally had the courage to come out to my mom the day before we took a 6 hr trip and the day before Mother's Day. I was very fortunate that everything went well and my mom said that as long as I am happy that she is happy for me. My dad said that he was more proud of me than he ever has been. This is saying a lot because he has always been very proud of me.
As for knowing when I was a lez well I didn't admit that to myself until February of this year. I had always known I was different. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was a senior in high school. We dated for 4 months and only went out by ourselves 2 times. We usually went every were with his 3 or 4 friends. So I was 1 of the guys which wasn't the first time. I never really understood why woman would put up with anything that guys did. I was always closer to my friends that were girls than the guys in my life. I had a crush on one of my friends in high school but never allowed myself to get really close to her. Then the first time I went to college I had a crush on a roommate but again didn't admit it to myself. I was trying to be the “good girl” and try to date guys. Then the past couple of years I spent having 1 night stands. I now know why I was on the self destructive path of no relationships and 1 night stands was because I was searching. I took the fact that I was gay very well I am now happier than I have ever been because I am not denying who I really am. I haven't found a girlfriend yet but hope to soon. Sorry I went on and on about this. Take care. I wish everyone Love Joy and Happiness.

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Fri, 05-25-2007 - 8:59pm

Hey Hippy!


Thanks so much for your input, I am glad you are enjoying the thread.

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Fri, 05-25-2007 - 9:39pm

Yep, I hear you on that. I am looking for and equal, or somebody I can take care of. Got to be in to the things that I like or make me like what they are in to, etc. I am certainly not hard to please, though.

Blue

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