Calm Today, Nervous Tomorrow

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Calm Today, Nervous Tomorrow
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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 8:39am

Well, women and SB, here I am at home per Dr. mich's orders. lol I got up later than usual, have worked out and eaten breakfast. I am getting ready to clean the bathrooms. I know, I know, I should be doing nothing. Later on I am going to the Harley dealership just to look at the bikes and ask questions. This is relaxing and I am away from my situation.

I know this is going to sound weird, but I am going to be stepping "out" a little tomorrow in going to check out our GBLT caucus in the union. Any suggestions, other than "be myself" as to what to do? I don't know whether to sit quietly in the back or put myself out there and introduce. This is kind of stupid, I know. Most of you are just so sure of yourselves and very comfortable. I'm that way most times, but this is a little out of my comfort zone. I would like to get the way you are. I am starting to get a little nervous. I will probably be a basket case. I was pretty scared when I was going to go in Dec(before I knew y'all), but the meeting was cancelled. Is there anything I should know?

Hugs Blue

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 9:13am
Hi Blue,
Don't forget to shout out the secret word before you speak. Remember the secret word is Rainbow.
We speak facing the back of the room instead of the front.
curtsy when finished if femme, bow if butch, clap hands if androgenous.
Ask for the newbies table to sign up for your toaster and membership card. Remember our incentives stink so there aren't any.
If you believe all of the above please post back and let us know how it went.
Not sure what to tell you other than listen mostly the first time. Introduce yourself. Speak if there is a chance and a reason/need. Get involved as much as you can for now.
And still, post as to how it goes.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Registered: 11-16-2005
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 9:51am

((((Blue)))


So glad you are home, and I hope you will relax and enjoy your day. What normally happens at the caucus meetings? If it were me, I'd probably hang back at first and observe. Once you get a feel for the atmosphere, I'd introduce myself. You don't have to totally put yourself out there, but you can start to network with others and give your input on the issues as much as you like. Do what will make you feel most comfortable. There will be meetings in the future, so you can build up to being an active participant.


Inside I would be nervous too. I'm not as sure of myself as I may seem here. For me, it takes time and baby steps. But, that's just me and my personality. I think you will do fine. You are warm and outgoing, and

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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 10:21am

As usual, you rock. I will remember the secret password. In fact, I thought I would just buy a rainbow shirt today and let it speak for me. I was not aware of which direction to speak, so that will be a new custom for me. I am not sure whether to bow, curtsy or clap so I will try to clabortsy and see if that is okay. I am anxiously awaiting my toaster, I hope the new models are out now. Is the membership card wallet sized or will I need my purse?

Thanks, Laurie. You're the best!

Hugs and love

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 11-16-2005
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 10:23am

"clabortsy"


You crack me up! lolol


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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 12:40pm

Ting,
I'm glad that I amuse you. I hire out for social events. I put on the jester hat, have a few drinks, and then the laughter begins!!!lol :)

I don't do jokes(Laurie's job), I don't remove my clothes for just anybody, I don't do stupid dog tricks( well maybe tricks, just not dog tricks), and I don't wear lampshades. I will inspire with lively conversation and a fairly quick wit, and keep your guests laughing. My fees are VERY reasonable.

Hugs

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 1:02pm

I must have missed a thread, don’t know why it’s a big deal to take a day off for yourself. Are you cutting classes without a doctor’s note? *grin*

I say sit in the middle, just because you are nervous. Get the feel of the place and people. IF you feel comfortable, speak up! Do they have an after get together party after the caucus? If not, maybe you can introduce yourself to a few and suggest a get-to-know-you drinks party afterward. I hope you end up having a good time!

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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 1:04pm

I thought the secret word is Rainbowwarrior. Hmm. That's why I never get into any places! *grin*

I preferred the butches to curtsy, the androgynous to twirl and the femmes to flex…it goes with the thinking of how different our community is for the mainstream. *wink*

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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 2:10pm

Hey, Rogue. Haven't seen you a lot.

Nah, you didn't miss a thread. The deal was that since I have been such a wreck, I should take a day off for myself. I sort of hmmed and hawed about it until Michelle reminded me that I promised to do that for myself. I certainly wouldn't have otherwise. I rarely take off. I think the last time I did that I had mono. So, guess what? I went to the Harley dealership this afternoon and the guy is going to call me when he gets a bike out that he thinks is good for me.

Sit in the middle. Wow, I will have to walk by bunches of people, maybe. I can do that. I know they have a nice dinner in July that I am sure I will go to with my friends. I don't know about tomorrow. I am also responsible to my own people, who are clueless, I think.

Thanks for the advice.

Hugs

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 11-16-2005
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 3:40pm

Well, if we ever have a big ole meet n greet, you're on the program for sure! I wanna see what tricks you have up your sleeve. ;-)


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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 6:09pm

Sleeves, my dear, will not be involved.........

Hah!

Blue

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