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Registered: 05-23-2007
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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 1:23am
So I'm sort of new to this. I had a brother who came out way before i did and was a lot younger.. I'm from the south so it isn't really all that accepted and you get knocked down with stones etc..I'm the first girl my gf has ever been attracted to, but its scary as hell... i'm scared shes gonna regret it one day its always in the back of my head im not sure why and i think i mess a lot of things up because of that, any advice? Shes always been attracted to guys and she still is.. but were so inlove and we both know it. its just something i fear a lot. shes my 2nd lesbian relationship, the first ive ever been sexual with.
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Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: nakedinthesky
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 7:40am

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In reply to: nakedinthesky
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 11:10am

Welcome to the board! So glad you are here.


I don't think you need to feel responsible for how your g/f might feel one day. It's good that you are perceptive and want to do the right thing. Just keep the communication flowing and tell her how you feel.


I hope it works out for you, and I'm glad you posted!


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Registered: 05-23-2007
In reply to: nakedinthesky
Thu, 05-24-2007 - 10:16pm
thanks caly, im 22 and shes 20 its just hard.. i suppose every relationship is. she confirms she loves me and only me etc all the time i'm not sure maybe im just insecure shes goes study abroad next year to spain so that could be part of it and another part could be shes best friends with her ex who she use to hang out with a lot alone but i trust her just sometimes things cross my mind. plus she hasnt told anyone about us, she isnt comfortable enough yet she says.
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In reply to: nakedinthesky
Fri, 05-25-2007 - 7:35am

Hi again.


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