Good Things

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Good Things
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Mon, 05-28-2007 - 9:39pm

I just wanted to post this because I am soooo excited and happy this evening and I am not getting much support here at home. I feel like a little kid with a shiny new toy, and there isn't anybody to share it with, so I picked you guys. You have given me such good advice and comfort for the anxiety and bad stuff.
This afternoon I got a call that I was selected to work home plate for a district semi-final softball game tomorrow. I have polished up my shoes and belt, pressed my uniform, fixed my hat(that would be my "cover" to our military types lol), and gotten out my Underarmor.
I don't even want to work tomorrow, I just want to umpire. My name has gone into the pool of umpires for the state championship tournament now! It's kind of a big deal in my life.

Thanks for being here for me.

Blue

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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 2:16pm

Of course, but not over the top???? What's a girl to do. I guess that knocks out that "cut down to there, slit up to here" number....

Seriously, jeans and a t-shirt, golf shirt, or button down is me. Only a week and a half left of work and then let's meet for lunch.

Hugs

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 5:08pm

Well, the thing is Blue, if you put something on that's "cut down to there...and a slit up to there" it just might cause me not to be able to think clearly, not to mention, I might just walk into something, or, I'd have to beat some poor guy to death. Roflol!!!! But, I'm a non-violent guy, but I will make exceptions. ;-)

Remember I have Friday's off from school. I do hope you still have my phone and cell number. If you don't I can send them to you in an email.

But you know what? I think you can turn heads with just about anything you wear.

Hugs,

Sebastian

 


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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 5:43pm

Honey, I'l LOVE to see you in action.....I only own one dress like that for special occasions. We'd make a killer couple, that's for sure.
I've turned a few heads..men and women.. in my time, but I was thinking that might be over until last week. You're the best!

Of course I have your phone number. YOU are on speed dial. I am still teaching until next Wednesday, the 20th.

I almost called you on my way home from the beach this afternoon, but wasn't sure how you would handle the short notice or if you were even available.

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 8:04pm

OMG!! LOL! I do hope you realize you have me blushing (a very rare occurance). Well, doll, from the picture I saw of you, I think your day and time is still here.

I'll tell you like I tell anyone, call me. You just might catch me home on a Sunday afternoon. My place of worship's hours have changed. We start worship at 10:00am and we let out at 11:00am. I should be home for the rest of the day.

I would love to hear your voice and I would like for you to hear mine. Sometimes a phone call on short notice is the best and if I can help it, on a Sunday, I'm always available. ;-)

Hugs,

Sebastian

 


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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 8:17pm
Quad A, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
((((((((((Blue))))))))))
Laurie

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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 8:22pm
Blue,
I am so angry at her with you. You just need to somehow seperate yourself from her, that Ice Princess. She is going to make you crazy if you don't. She is really no good to have in your life. We have to figure a way for you to get over her and this whole mess. She is really no good! Just trouble.
Ice Princess is the nice term I am using due to TOSS.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 8:25pm

Thanks, Laurie. :)
You must know what that means......
So far, I have not been nervous and don't think I will be. The college championships gave me a boost of confidence. I have done the whole "getting ready ritual" over again. I need to polish my shoes one more time and Febreeze my hat to give it that "just out of the box" look. Second base is a great place to be. I would have rather been home plate, but that will be another year. The whole rotation for outfield hits keys off of me, so at least I know that I have a somewhat important role. Plus the steal to second.

I can't decide if I should wear my uniform to work since time is tight, or if I should change when I get there like I usually do. Okay, I am just rambling here, but I am home alone and my thoughts are zipping like bees.

Thanks, again. Hugs

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 8:32pm

I'm getting there, girl. Here's a question. She made me all kinds of jewelry. She gave me an Asian rice maker that is really cool. She bought me earrings and clothes. Should I box them up and give them back or put them away. Should I put them in the teachers room and put "free" on them? Should I wear them every chance I get? Should I give them to Goodwill? I have asked some folks that I am out to here and I am getting mixed reviews. Some say to just put the stuff away and some say if I want to stick it to her, I should give them back.

She really is a tough woman. Ice Princess is an apt description. I fell for that, because I had never met a woman that was so strong in the face of so much adversity that she faced. I can't even imagine what her therapist told her. Probably to distance herself from me as fast as possible.

I am taking all opinions on this and reasons why. The folks on this board given good advice in the past and I would like some help on this.

Help is requested.

Hugs

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 9:00pm

Ok Blue all flirting aside. I've been in relationships that have hurt me real bad. But I could never leave the woman alone. I couldn't stop thinking about her, going by her house (when I was driving)and all I could do keep myself distanced from her. No matter how much I wanted to sleep with her, I knew she was no good.

She would give me things and treat me nice, but on the other hand she would treat me like crap.

The more you keep in touch with her, the more you allow her to keep in contact with you, the more you accept things from her, the more she can hurt you and turn things around to make it look like you're still persuing her. I know it's not the easiest thing to let a woman that you've fallen in love with go, but if she's not going to fulfill your expectations, then by all means leave her alone. Think of it this way, you think you're having coming out issues with your life outside of your family? That's nothing compared to what she will do if she outs you to your husband and children.

It's your decision on how long you're going to continue to let her get your attention and give you things. Leave her alone.

I have found that the most annoying thing is to ignore someone that you don't want any attention from. Here recently, I have seen a woman from my past. I gave this woman my heart and she stomped on it. I had a nervous breakdown because she couldn't be honest with herself, her son or anyone else. Well, as time went by, I regained my sanity and I have a better life today, because I'm making it my business to purposefully ignore her. I see her every so often, and she hasn't changed a thing: She's still manipulative, she still uses her body for drugs, sex or whatever. Goddess knows what she has or doesn't have.

She looks like (and please excuse me Caly, Ting and the TOS police)hell warmed over. I want NOTHING to do with a woman that has treated me like a piece of gum that you scrape off of your shoe, or that I wasn't worth the time of day to get to know, or that used me to make herself look good. Or, stole from me, not only my money, but my peace of mind.

So, Blue, that's my experience with a woman that doesn't care about you, nor does she want to see you be happy. The rest is up to you.

Thanks and hugs,

Sebastian.




Edited 6/10/2007 9:02 pm ET by igentleheart

 


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Sun, 06-10-2007 - 9:05pm

hey blue,
Thought i'd give my opinion here, ok?
What do these things mean to you? Do you get good or bad feelings when you wear or see them? If they keep bringing back how you feel or felt abou her and you want to get over her then I would give them to Goodwill. Then again, are you ready to let go of them?
Only you know the answer.
Hope I didn't overstep here.

hugs
mich

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