Made my Lawyer Appointment Today...
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| Tue, 05-29-2007 - 2:54pm |
Well I have an appointment with the lawyer tomorrow at 5:00pm. I know that I need to go and find out what my legal rights are, but I really dread and am having major anxiety about this. My problem is I am tired. I am emotionally drained. I don't feel like dealing with anything right now. I just want to crawl in a corner. I hate feeling like this. I used to deal with stuff head on, now I can't seem to deal with anything.
My husband is being a butt. Monday I took a nap. I have been so tired from not sleeping reqularly. I took a 3 hour nap. He had the nerve to say out loud while the kids were around, that I was lazy. Lazy!!!! Does he just think magic little elves do the laundry, dishes, cook dinner, clean house, etc? Mind you I also work a full time job. He is such a you know what. I finally blew up at him. The kids were outside. I said, so I hear that you think I am lazy? He was like, "I never said that." I told him, Well if you speak out loud and children are around, they are going to repeat what you say." He just stormed out the house and sat on the porch like a child. He lied to me and still won't admit he said it.
Oh by the way... Poof the house has just been cleaned....

((((((((Momma))))))))
I'm sorry you are going through this. It is sooooooo tough, especially when kids are involved. Stay strong, girl. I'm glad you made the appointment with the lawyer. Yes, it will be painful and stressful to talk about what you're going through and the possibility of ending your marriage. But, keep focusing on the outcome - what you want in the end - and that you are taking steps to make it happen.
We'll be thinking of you. It will be ok. You'll get through this. Do what you have to do to get through each day and get as much rest as you can.
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((((Browneyes)))
Sorry this is so tough, but at least I can see how these things go. You are just way more brave than I am right now, and you really impress me. WE all know that you are not lazy and I know all about the magic elves.
Are you married to my husband or his twin?
Be strong. Stand tall and I am confident that good things will follow.
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Blue
Stay strong. We all have that strength deep down inside of us that we need just when we think we can't make it through something.
I know you are not lazy, no woman who is raising children, taking care of the house and working can ever be lazy.
You deserved that nap! And you should take more of them if you need them. He is a jerk! And I am being nice. You do not deserve this treatment.
Take care of yourself.
You will get through this browneyes... your life is right around the cornor.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Hi Momma. I totally understand your feelings about not wanting to deal with the whole situation. When you feel your world crumbling-how the hell do you find the courage to move on and take control of your life? It is so freakin hard. But guess what-you'll do it because the only other option is to crawl in that hole-and you just can't do it. And then to have your dh be a total jerk doesn't help.
I have decided to start making a tally record of how many days I have survived this ordeal-and watching those marks go on and on will hopefully give me strength to realize that I can make it one more day. I really do empathize with you-my own tears started to well as I typed this. I'm just so grateful we have this board. Hang in there and start your own tally-or some other visual to help you. And focus on YOU!
Passion
I LOVE your tally idea. It makes so much sense and is a wonderful way to gain strength in the darkest, most painful moments of coming to terms with who we are and what we want from life.
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