This past weekend..
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| Mon, 06-04-2007 - 12:30pm |
Well this past weekend I went through all my son's clothes and basically packed him up for my parents. He is still so exicited it is so cute! We are going to TN this coming weekend.
On Saturday night, my hubby was in the computer room on the computer and when I walked in he changed screen really quick. I thought that was odd. So on Sunday I did some snooping (bad I know). I went on his messenger, nothing there. I went into his email account and saw that he had set up a myspace account (no big deal, right?) I personally have my own myspace account. I use it to keep in touch with my sister, cousins, friends from IN, etc. There are pics of me, my hubby, my son. Everyone that is a friend on my myspace account, both me and my hubby know. I open up his myspace account. There are 3 girls on his friends list. I don't know them and they are from the city we live in. So I start digging deeper. I went to his sent email messages. He had sent out 12 emails to females in the city we live in, saying stuff like, "Your hot, let's talk sometime." (I know lame pick up line)
I was floored. I know we got problems, but I never imagined this. If I ever had a little bit of an inkling to stay with him it is definately gone now. I sort of felt sorry for planning on leaving him. I don't know. Why do we stay together, obviously we are both not happy in this relationship? Do we just stay because of our child? I feel like I have crapped 10 years of my life down the toliet. Uggh! I am not going to say anything about it to him, it will just cause a argument that does not matter because before this even happened I was planning on leaving on the 25th of June. It sort of hurts me alittle bit, but then it really doesn't bother me at all sometimes.
Also I need to turn in my resignation in at work. I know the standard is 2 week notice. If I give it to them now it will give them an additonal week to find someone. I have nothing bad to say about the company I work for. My boss and I always don't see eye to eye. What would you do if you were in my situation?
My next therapy appointment is set up for tomorrow at 5:00pm. On a happier note I will be going to TN to see my parents, aunt, uncle, and cousins for the weekend. I am exited!

(((((((Brown_eyed_momma))))))))
Well, now you can be 100% sure you're doing the right thing by leaving. I wouldn't bring up the myspace thing to your husband. Just go forward with your plans.
I'm sorry it has all come to this. No matter what's happened in a marriage, I've heard that there is always some grieving involved in dissolving it. Don't be afraid to let yourself grieve.
I would give your notice as you're planning to do. I don't know how close you are to your boss and coworkers but I probably wouldn't tell them exactly why you are leaving--just give a generic "leaving to
(((Browneyes)))),
At least you know that there are a mulitude of reasons why this marriage was not working. I agree with Ting. Just keep to the plans you have set in motion. It doesn't sound like dh is going to be a problem. I would keep the myspace stuff tucked away in case you need it somewhere down the road. It's ashame you can't get surrepticious hard copies. Don't go getting yourself in trouble, however.
Have fun in TN. Sounds like you will be surrounded by people you love and that love you. Keep us posted when you can.
Blue
Now you do not have to feel guilty for leaving that dirt bag. He is really no good for you.
I hope the plans work well and have a great trip to TN.
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