Thursday Thoughts......LBD........

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Thursday Thoughts......LBD........
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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 7:31am

Lesbian Bed Death


Is is simply a fancy name for what can happen even to heterosexual couples?

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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 7:36pm

When one of us is not in the mood, however, the other one totally respects that, and there is no pressure to perform. That aspect of our relationship has been very special and meaningful.


Ahhh soo true Baby!

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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 7:48pm

Oh Roxy!

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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 10:08pm
Thank you Caly. This is an interesting topic as usual.
Thank you for the positve thoughts we need them and certainly believe in them.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 10:17pm

For those that are getting to know me and for those that already know me, please just read. Thanks.

When I was dating, I must admit the sex part was what I looked forward to. The one night stands, of course, that's all that was wanted by either party. I wasn't until I began to want to settle down and be in a long term relationship, that sex was a part of the relationship and not the whole focus.

When I finally was in a long term relationship, it was sex every night. Of course, that all depended on how tired I was from work, or if she was in the mood, or if we were going through a rough patch in our relationship, where neither partner was interested in being intimate, or even to have make-up sex. There were instances where sex had become non-existant. (Spooky thought, huh?).

Well, for right now, I'm not in a relationship and I'm not dating, but I am relieving my pent-up sexual energy, as needed. At this point in my life, I know that the things that come before the sex act, are having "the talk" (stds), getting to know what my potential partner likes, or dislike etc. and telling her what I like, dislike etc. And finally, when the time comes and she says "yes" then I know the sex will be hot, steamy and oh so wonderful! Roflol!

Thanks,

Sebastian

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 10:26pm

Thanks for sharing Sebastian.

Hugs
Roxy

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Fri, 06-08-2007 - 7:20am

Thanks as always SB for a man's view on things.

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Fri, 06-08-2007 - 8:16am

Your welcome, Caly. Even though I know it was withing the bounds of TOS, I do hope that I haven't caused anyone any discomfort or disgust with my response.

Thanks again and hugs,

Sebastian

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Fri, 06-08-2007 - 8:17am

Your welcome, roxy.

Hugs,

Sebastian

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Fri, 06-08-2007 - 9:28pm

((Sebastian)),

That could never be. You write with eloquence, patience, and knowledge.

Hugs

Blue

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Sat, 06-09-2007 - 3:37am
LOL.. When ~S~ and I first really allowed ourselves to admit we wanted a relationship we were on fire for each other... but we also had a long talk before

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