How do I unhook?

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Registered: 06-05-2007
How do I unhook?
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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 6:29pm
How to I let go. I am getting bogged down in too puch pain. I think i need to watch it or I will be in not a good place by October. Any tips. I go from denial (holding on to the idea she will come back) to grief to confusion. I feel I need to talk to her. It is driving me crazy. She asked for NC. I should honor that? Do email her BFF who knows it all and ask for a phone call? Do I just decide it is over? Can you tell I am confused and hurting. Ugh. What do i do?

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 1:36am
Right Laurie!.. Heck some of us out here have flirted way deep with each other even when we knew we were

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 7:48am
Cat? You don't mean me do you? I don't mean to flirt. I just tell it like it is so Blue knows She is a good catch and should be out there looking for other than the Ice Princess.
My kitty cat would not accuse me of flirting would she?... LOL
I seem to remember a little kitty cat that could do some flirting of her own around here. Haaa.
My Kitty Cat.
Hugs,
Laurie
Laurie

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Registered: 06-05-2007
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 7:57am
Oh yeah, I think someone else IS flirting with Blue! (smile). So sweet. Okay busy day for me. I realise how much pressure I have been under. All the grieving processing and then work.. Catch you all a bit later.
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Registered: 06-05-2007
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 7:58am
LOL! I think there is SOMEONE else...lol.
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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 8:05am
Me? Nahhhhh, I am happily committed. I am not flirting, just being me.I have been enjoying watching you two flirt though.
It's sweet and I think it helps you two.
Do I seem like a flirt? I hope I have not offended anyone.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Registered: 06-05-2007
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 8:25am

No, not you!!! LOL! Someone else. (wink) It is sweet.

Okay, i realised how much stress i was under sat night! I have got to take good care of me right now. You know, eating right, exercise, sleep, meditation, the works.

Have a sweet day Laurie!

xx

Roxy

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 8:29am
Awwwww roxy, you have a good day too. And do take care of you. You deserve it.
And you deserve to have a great day!
Hugs and xx's back attcha,
Laurie
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Registered: 03-25-2007
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 7:07pm

Well, since you are all talking around me, I LIKE the flirting. Certainly is an ego boost and makes me feel good and way braver than I was before I got here. It's hard to know how you are perceived with what God gave ya. The pic was a risk for me. I know that. It's all harmless as far as I am concerned and spices things up!! If any of you find yourselves, "not happily committed" well then, by all means, send an email. Not that I am desperate or anything. I don't want that to be getting around, 'cause I'm not. lol

I think it has helped. Who knows what the future will hold for any of us.

Hugs

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 09-29-2003
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 12:07am
No! Not U!~ You are so sweet... Tell Sheila Hi and remember we are still remembering your ((((Mom)))) and now her (((((Dad))) also in our prayers..
(((((Hugs Hon)))))


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Registered: 09-29-2003
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 12:10am
((((Hugs Roxy)))


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