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she broke up with me
| Tue, 06-12-2007 - 3:34pm |
I am heartbroken. I held onto hope. She minimized us. SOunded so cold and business like. Said it was a coping mechanism. I cried cried and cried. She did not.It the cancer in her. I started to be for friendship but she sees it as a mistake...how do you ask someone who sees you as a mistake to be your friend. She sais she was so sorry she hurt me.
I did not do well. I feel terrible I feel apart and that added pressure to her. So now she wont want to me my friend because she hates pressure and conflict. I was not prepared. ugh. I am so sad

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Babe, if you emailed me, I did not get it and I have been waiting. I don't want you to think that I am dissing you in any way by not writing back. Resend it, if you want to or send another. I'm here to help.
((((((Hugs))))))
Blue
Blue is right, there will be time for words later.
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Roxy,
I hope today finds you doing OK.
How are you doing today, friend?
I firmly believe that one day K will wake up and realize how miserable she is. It's obvious that she is hurting and unhappy. I'm sorry she chose to deflect that hurt onto you instead of being honest and compassionate.
You take care of YOU, k? You did nothing wrong in how you reacted and handled the situation.
Big hugs
I hurt. I am replaying in my head all she said. I hurt . I am in shock at what she said.
Roxy
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I am so sorry you're having to go through this. That feeling absolutely sucks!! You know though, I have acted in the same way that she did....acting almost emotionless in order to cope with a situation that I really just want to fall apart in. I imagine that she felt alot more than she was showing... Big hugs for you and I'm so glad you have us to vent to and get support from!
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