A Ringing Sensation...
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A Ringing Sensation...
| Sat, 06-23-2007 - 9:36pm |
I have a very serious question, but I can't even believe I am asking. I am looking for pros and cons to this with reasons why.
I want to know if you think I should remove my wedding rings when I go to my union event this weekend or leave them on. I don't want to misrepresent myself, but I don't want to put people off. Okay, I know this is weird and it sounds really awful, but please remember I am new to all of this and am trying to find my way. Is this a terrible thought? Should I even consider it? I don't even want to ask my therapist this question on Tuesday, so I'm asking you.
Please be nice and break it to me gently.
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Blue

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*sigh* LOL! Blue, I wouldn't worry about your wedding rings. Do what you think is comfortable for you. If you want to take them off, put them in your home in a safe place, if you want to keep them on, turn the stone inside of your palm, to protect it, of course.
I don't think too many folks there would care, on way or the other. More than likely, they would think that you have a very rich sweetheart, roflol!! Just kidding!
My suggestion, if you're still having doubts, ask your therapist. But if it were me, I would wear them until I decided to take them off, I wouldn't worry too much about how I'm seen, really, it's no one's business.
Hugs,
Sebastian.
Hugs,
Sebastian
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Hey Blue,
My 2 cents? If in
This is part of your coming out process.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Sebastian, thank you very much for your input. I value your opinion.
Hugs
Blue
Thanks, Caly.
I need to hear as much as possible about this as I make my decision. I guess that since I am even asking the question I am leaning toward taking them off. I just maybe need little nudge for somebody to say it's okay. I need to hear the other side, it there is one. So, thanks, you always make sense.
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Blue
Laurie, thanks. I think the honest part in this case is they way to go if I actually bump into someone.. Course, I'm not being honest with my dh. Does this make me a dishonest person? Clinically, I'd say yes, but then the truth is that I haven't been honest all my life. But, was it dishonety or protection???? This could be a very slippery slope if I continue on this path, so I'd better quit now. lol Good discussion for therapy.
Thanks a bunch, girl, life is a continuing process.
Hugs
Blue
Too funny Sebastian and good advice! LOL!
hugs
Roxy
I vote with everyone else here...take them off....and have fun!
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Roxy
Thanks, Roxy. I'll keep you posted!!
Blue
Thank you, roxy. In a way, I can understand how Blue feels. I know that being honest on all levels is important, but usually, it's the one that has to make the final decision, benefits either way.
But, I just like to confuse nosey people, if it were me, I would just say, "Oh, I don't think my wife would approve". But then, I'm just a smart butt. ;-)
Hugs,
Sebastian.
Hugs,
Sebastian
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