Well, Whaddaya Know

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Well, Whaddaya Know
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Tue, 07-17-2007 - 7:29pm

So, here's the scoop.

I go out to a family establishment last Friday night. It happens to be Drag Queen night, so I am thinking that there will be mostly guys there. I am right. I decide to stay for the beginning of the show, because I have never seen a drag show and then leave. I paid the five dollar cover, after all.

I am minding my own business when this woman(with two friends in tow) shouts, "It's your lucky night!! R is going to buy you a shot!" Okay, I am fine with that. We get to talking and there is S and D who are partners and R. Apparently, according to what R told me afterward, they were scouting up some local talent for R. They find out I am from Philly and it is a little disapointing for them. Anyhow, R asks me to dance, well actually, holds me and we start dancing. There is a little conflict about who will lead, cause, ladies, ya know I almost always lead, but I let her take over.

After a bit her friends leave and R and I watch the drag show and dance in between. I must say that I am not ashamed to tell you that I went home with her and she rocked my world. God, I GET IT!!!! Y'all know what I am talkin' about...**weg*** I did not go home that night and my mom gave me a raft of crap, but I covered.

So, I'm thinkin' I would like to see her again and how soon should you call, blah, blah, and she calls me on Sunday while I am changing a tire on the interstate(cause lesbians change their own tires when they are pissed and tired of waiting for AAA). My heart starts racing, as you can imagine. So, I went to visit on Monday night, and all afternoon today.

Yeah, yeah, I hear y'all. The U-Haul is ordered and will be packed by Sunday night. lol
It is kind of bittersweet, 'cause I gotta go home tomorrow. I think this would be a really good thing for us, but long distance sucks. She was a ball player(shortstop), works out, is very independent, has her own house, and just generally has it together. Did I mention that she was cute and hot. I KNOW, I got it bad!!!

Somebody bring me some water.......

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Blue

BLUE DIA
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Wed, 07-18-2007 - 8:44pm

AWWWWW.. Blue I feel just giddy for you. So funny, with your 'God, I GET IT!' Sounds like you certainly did!!! *wiggling eyebrows atcha* LMAO...


and she sounds nice too!

 

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Wed, 07-18-2007 - 8:53pm

Okay, you are just baaaaad!!! But, um, **weg**, yeah, I got it. Is there a sign up sheet for more???? Just kidding.

She's very nice. I don't know what I was expecting at the bar. I thought, you know, maybe I would dance a little, play a little kissy face, go home all charged up. Okay, yeah, that happened. You should hear the story that I told my mom about why I never came home. Of course, she's all about getting abducted, etc. Geez, it's like I'm 16 or something. I didn't want to hit her with the fact that I was with an ACTUAL woman on Friday, when I had just told her that morning. My mom is so cool.

The story for Monday was even more hysterical. No wonder I think they all know!!!! I just suck at this lying thing, but you have to know that I have been a secret agent for so long, and nobody knew. My mom said that my brothers and sister would make remarks in passing ( I think I already posted this somewhere), but I am nobody special to be talking about.

Thanks and hugs

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Wed, 07-18-2007 - 10:16pm

"What is it that I am supposed to tell you?? She knows that I am posting and she thinks it's okay. I told her we were all here and she should come on board. "

Darn, i guess i have to be careful and not flirt with you anymore...huh?

Lol! So HAPPY for you!

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Roxy

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Wed, 07-18-2007 - 10:18pm
Blue,
Details! Like what you just posted, lol. That is interesting that you met some more and did NOT get any sun!
So, did you exchange phone numbers and e-mails etc?
Sorry she lives so far, but what a summer fling to remember IF that is all it turns out to be.
More details such as, what else does she look like, if you had to lable her, femme, soft butch, butch, pretty, beautiful, sporty, hair color, short, long, medium, blond, dark hair, color of eyes, taller than you or shorter or the same.
Blue you know me by now, Lot's of questions!
What drew you to her?
How did you feel about going back to her house? Did you feel excited, scared, both. Were you hoping something would happen?
What were you wearing that night? What was she wearing? Does she have a sexy voice, southern drawl?
You know... details... lol.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Wed, 07-18-2007 - 10:56pm

Ooh yeah..At least let me live Vicariously through this...I have not..eh (cough)...been there in a looooooooooooong, long, LONG time. My experience is actually limited...so spill the details...blue.

LOL!

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Roxy

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Wed, 07-18-2007 - 11:53pm

BLUE!!!!!!!!! You're way ahead of me now! Girl, I came on her to announce my big news, and I see yours! You go girl. See-told you. Even if this isn't the one, you will not be alone for long. As a matter of fact, you may be telling dh very soon so you can get your world rocked over and over.

I'd like to say I'm jealous, but-well I am. But I'm not also, as I'm nowhere near ready for that. I'll just live vicariously through Blue.

Oh-but I forgot. I got felt up on Monday. Remember the fitness instructor who "woke" me up? Well, I was doing this plank move in class, when she came over to show me how to do it. I have to just say that my form was fine. However, she felt the need to first put her hands on my hips and then proceeded to put her full hand on my butt and leave it there for what seemed like forever. I almost lost it. That is how deperate I am for anything. She then told me later she had been thinking about me all weekend. She's a total flirt-but it's okay with me. Because it's reminding me what I'm doing all this for. The intensity of that one touch was-well-you know.

Again-I'm so psyched for you. Thanks for kissing (and other stuff) and telling.

Hugs,

Passion

oooh-I almost forgot. A shortstop? They are usually quick and strong. Good catch. I played third-so always got a good view of the SS.

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Thu, 07-19-2007 - 7:01am

Nah, go ahead and flirt...You know I like it. Besides, I don't know where this will ever go. She lives so far away. Probably just a weekend thing, although I would like to persue things if we could. Hmmmmm, what to do.

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Blue

BLUE DIA
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Thu, 07-19-2007 - 8:56am

"Hmmmmm, what to do."....Hello?! Pursue of course. How far away is she...and weekends can yummy. Have you called? Have you emailed? Start there...dont let too much time go by!

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Roxy

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Thu, 07-19-2007 - 1:57pm
Congratulations on finding a new friend. *grin* Go with your feelings. As long as you both agreed to a long distance or hopping on a plan every weekend relationship, go with it. I also second what Seb said, be safe, practice safe. Don’t forget to come up for air too! ;-)
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Thu, 07-19-2007 - 2:08pm

All right, more details.

Yes, we have exchanged phone numbers and emails and I was hoping for an email reply, but have not received one. It's really okay, though. I wish I lived in Charleston.

If I had to label her, I would say soft butch, blue jeans femme, just like me. Curly brown hair, awesome eyes. An absolutely great sexy, southern accent that is pretty deep and when she calls me "baby," well, let's just say it hits the button. lol About the same size, maybe a little taller. She can really lead when we are dancing, and following is not something that I am accustomed to doing. Strong and lean. She has a cute little dog.

Friday night I was hugely scared, but things just sort of took care of themselves, if you know what I mean. Let's see that night I wore a new linen shirt, muted brown and tan striped, three quarter sleeves. I always wear them with only two buttons up and leave it open with a cami or a tank(tan that night) underneath. Sort of gives me a little exposure. I was wearing my muted rainbow bead necklace, jeans, and my favorite shoes. She was wearing what I normally wear. A collared shirt with jeans, belt, of course! Her friends are making a big deal about how I haven't really been with a woman, and I thought she might be a little leary of that at first, but all itwas soooooo smooth.

One of the funny things was that they wanted to know if it was somebody's birthday. It was so close to mine, that R jumped up and said "right here, right here!" So I get a free shot. Somehow the table behind finds out I am a teacher. A guy asks what I teach. I tell him that I am the stereotype (ha ha), I teach PE. He says that he, too, is the stereotype-a male art teacher. He is trying to tell me about his paintings, but, you know, I really don't care. My attention is elsewhere. I swear, Laurie, I tried to be real nice, but how can you really do that when you are thinking about something else!!! lol

If I am redoing stuff, I apologize. So all day Saturday I am agonizing if I should call her again. I decide to call her Sunday night to ask to see her again. Lo and behold, I am doing the tire changing thing and SHE calls me. On Monday, I tell my mom a little white lie so she doesn't worry and off I go. We are listening to Rod Stewart sings love ballads(got to get that CD) when we stand to dance. Of course, you all know where dancing leads!! lol Later, I ask her to take Tuesday off and come to the beach with me. She has a sales call, but tells me she will try and meet me for lunch.

I am not expecting anything, because I know that the real world has to work all the time, but she can make it. I am just starting to put money in the meter to go on the beach, and she is on her way. I had two vodkas and cran, and a shot of Soco and lime before we leave. I have NEVER been to lunch and had drinks. You just don't do that in education. What's really cool is that she "played hookey" for me in the afternoon.

Tonight I am going into Philly with my old student teacher. The establishment called Bump. We are starting there and then moving out on the town. This is all new stuff for me. I have had such great teachers so far. From the union gig, to Knoxville, Chattanooga, Charleston ;) , and now tonight. I will keep y'all informed tomorrow about the new adventure. I can't think of anything more you might want to hear from the Charleston thing.

What else could you possibly want to know???? ***weg*** and I'm not telling THOSE details.......just let your imagination run wild. I do not kiss and tell.

Hugs

Blue

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