I invited some friends over...

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Registered: 06-05-2007
I invited some friends over...
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Wed, 07-18-2007 - 3:15pm

I invited some good women over from another site. I just wanted to welcome then here when they got here. Hopefully they wont be too shy to post. Anyway, i wanted to make them feel welcomed and safe!

Dont know what "handles" they will pick but I am sure they will let me know..

Hugs Girls!

Roxy

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Registered: 07-02-2003
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 3:07pm

Welcome to the board, Signeted!

Wandering, confused and not-so-confused, everyone is welcome here! The leaders of the board are away on holiday right now, but make yourself at home. I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for here.


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Registered: 07-02-2003
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 3:17pm
Rowan has been watching us, pretty silently I noticed, to make sure that we behave. Last time they left, we kind of got a little out of hand, but Rowan was right there with us.


I am here, fgpBlue! *wink*

You all have just been so good that I haven't need to say anything. *giggle* You all are good anyway!


It seems that while we are lesbians and that's what brings us together as a community, we are ALL so much more than that. We are sisters, daughters, wives(some) or former wives, employees, moms, and all the other stuff that the hetero world is. We are normal, functioning, loving human beings.

Wonderfully said! Especially the last sentence.


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Registered: 05-20-2007
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 3:39pm

Hey Blue. I understand about wondering if you're ready to give it all up. You know me-make the big move and then wonder about it all afterwards. Actually, I wondered about it all beforehand. I didn't make the decision to move on without really considering it. Actually, sometimes I tell myself I could come back if I wanted to. However, I know I could never come back as that woman is gone. She no longer exists. So I HAVE to go-and that should make it easier.

I guess if this was supposed to be easy, the rewards wouldn't be so great at the end. At least that's what I tell myself.

It's really hard to prepare your heart for what you're going to feel. We are giving some things up and we can't deny that. I'm glad you thought on that a while.

It will feel awful as you tell him, but that's the hardest moment. It will get better. I'm really pulling for you and keeping you in my thoughts. As you tell him, I will be trying to settle into a new life-living alone in new place and watching my family come apart and take a new form. All scary stuff for us!

Hang in there

Hugs,

Passion

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Registered: 03-25-2007
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 3:44pm

Heather, thanks. It's how I feel about this place. The women(SB) pulled me out of a deep, dark place and I am so comfortable. I feel like I have grown up here(right, Rogue?). I know that my grieving and recovery would have been so much longer without this board. Not only for the process of venting and moving on, but for the fun and serious things we talk about. It helps to take the pain away.

You are very nice to watch over us while Caly and Kirche are gone. I enjoy your company.

Hugs

FgpBlue

PS Good lord woman, how do you keep track of all those boards!?!??

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 02-15-2004
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 6:11pm

Well blue, I'm not your typical kind of guy. I always let a lady take some control. Control freak I'm not. ;-)

Hugs,

Sebastian

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Registered: 10-01-2003
Sat, 07-21-2007 - 5:50am

Welcome, ziggy-blue!


Don't you worry about posting. Just relax and soak up the great gay vibes all you like! I lurk an awful lot myself, reading here nearly everyday... then go through a posting phase only to retire to lurkdom again. Swings and roundabouts, you know? ;)


*giving you a hug as I secretly fill your pockets with m&m's* MMMMM good medicine ;)


~ Nony

 

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Registered: 10-01-2003
Sat, 07-21-2007 - 5:56am

Welcome signeted! No, we don't mind confused. Heck, most of us may have been right where you are, at one point or another!


Sorry to read about your precious friendship turning to silence. Hopefully, it's only an adjustment period, not a permanent thing.


*tipping a whole bowlful of m&m's into your bag when you aren't looking*

 

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Registered: 10-01-2003
Sat, 07-21-2007 - 5:59am

*most gentle hugs*


I am really sorry for your recent losses.

 

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Registered: 07-15-2007
Sat, 07-21-2007 - 6:16am

hey_nony

Thank you for your reply you all have been tremendous
L Ziggy

 
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Registered: 07-02-2003
Sat, 07-21-2007 - 7:35am
PS Good lord woman, how do you keep track of all those boards!?!??


LOL! I only take care of 3 boards (Tattoos & Piercings, Abortion Support and 30s and Thriving. The others are just ones I show off in my signature in hopes that someone who might need the board will see it. :) I do play at Curious Chef and the Ex Pat board though! (Along with several others. *blush*)


I know what you mean about some boards. I love the boards on iVillage also! I've met so many wonderful people who've helped me when I've needed and felt like no one in my daily world would understand.


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