Long Time Gone

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Thu, 07-26-2007 - 9:37pm

Well, folks, I have been out of touch for awhile. That would be for a number of reasons. I have been at Leadership School at Gettysburg College for the teachers union. There isn't much computer access there. I have classes that I am supposed to attend, but that didn't happen every day ;), and there has been another person to "show me the way." She sort of took up some of my time.

So Monday night I go to the social to have a couple of drinks and dance awhile. I see S, who I knew from the RA and from the GLBT dinner(we danced together) We're drinking and one thing leads to another and we end up slow dancing. I hear you!! I AM NOT OUT REMEMBER!! Maybe not anymore, though. An awful lot of people saw us. Anyhow, yes to your question. I went home with her. My, my my.....what can I tell you. I know you all want details, so...

She's really tall for me and that just gives me more ground to cover. :) She has short, blond hair, and I would call her soft butch, but she wears lip gloss of all things and sometimes skirts. She tell me that they are Colombia, so they don't count. Yeah, right. Okay, okay, I couldn't help myself. She has awesome eyes. The eyes get me every time. She's pretty hot by anybody's standards. I cannot figure out what has come over me. On Tuesday I went to the auction and we sat together. She is secretly caressing my arm and my leg just driving me crazy. I spend Tuesday night until the wee hours of the morning, I cut classes on Wednesday afternoon. I did go to the region social, but never made it to the variety show. Went to the Wednesday late night Social. S and I are walking back to her room from the Social around 1am and she is holding hands with me. I just let her. In fact, I hold back. I have always wanted to do that. It was cool. We have already been holding hands, but not with so many people around. One of the gay guys passes by us and talks to us. We have a conversation and then I do this stupid, butch thing and ask if he wants me to walk him home. Like he needs it. It sounded gallant and all that, and he was terribly drunk. He laughs and shouts out loud that "we will both be safe, though." S's roommate came home and now we are walking around the campus looking for a place to.....so we end up in my car/truck. It was like we were freakin' 16 yr olds parking. I thought is was kind of risky and that always adds to the sensation. Lights from the parking lot, but not many people at 2 am. There were a few though, and we would lay real still until they passed by. S complained about rug burns this morning. Hee Hee I cut class again this morning.

Let me just be real up front here. I am a "straight" arrow. I always got up went to breakfast, classes, early evening activity, danced for awhile and was ALWAYS in by 11pm. I think I have been lead astray by a bad influence, but it was oh, so, good.

This was round seven. Round eight begins fomorrow morning. I am sitting here watching season 3 of the L Word and trying to gather my strength and find my reserve stamina. I am leaving for CO to visit my dd and her boyfriend. I have decided not to tell her, and will leave it up to a joint decision between dh and I as to where to go with this. I have looked up the name of a gay bar in the Boulder area and will go if I get the chance.

I forgot to mention during all this that I had to go to the hospital on Tuesday because the bottom of my right calf was really painful and swelled up. My ankle, too. They can't figure out what it is, so they call it Arthralgia. Who knew. The gave me an ankle brace, and it does make my leg feel good.

Any questions!!!!!????

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The for real, no questions remain, FgpBlue

Hey, S, I hope I got the timeline right!!! Feel free to correct it. Should I tell them more.....cause there's lots more I could share ;)

BLUE DIA

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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 7:28am

WOW!

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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 11:37am
I hope you are staying safe out there my friend!?
Becareful and have fun.
Catch of the day; Blue
I will be back with questions after yard work and a shower.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 1:55pm

Woo Hoo! Sounds like you are sowing more than a few wild oats, chick! Be careful and have fun! I agree with your decision not to tell your DD until after you talk to DH. I know as much as you would like to tell her in person, telling her on the phone is ok too. Hope your ankle is ok.


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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 5:02pm

Both you and Laurie have said "be careful." What does that mean? The general health and disease thing, certain people, with my home situation? I have been pretty careful all my life and am now moving into new, uncharted territory. Help a sister out, here.

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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 5:32pm

Hi Blue, I suggested that you becareful also. Even though I'm happy that you are having as much sex as possible with some of the women that you are meeting, and you have a nice acquaintantship with a few of them.

Before you know it things can turn ugly. You don't have to listen to anything I'm saying, or you can just ignore the fact that we are trying to give you warnings about the women, that you are meeting. You don't know anything about them, other than what they do for a living and what they like to do for fun.

Do you know anything about these women's sexual history? Don't take anything for granted. You already have enough on your plate, you said so yourself. If you haven't noticed besides the fact that we are glad that you are out and having a much fun as possible, you don't know if these women are in relationships, or if they are playing around on their mates. Not every woman that you meet is going to be honest with you.

They may see you come up in your truck and just see money, or whatever it is that they want from you. Look, if I didn't care about you, I wouldn't say a word and just sit by.

So, you do what you want, ok?

I'm done.

Sebastian




Edited 7/27/2007 6:08 pm ET by igentleheart

 


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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 6:59pm
Hi friend,
I mean to just be careful sexually and going to homes of people that you do not know to well.
Just be careful that's all. But have fun.
And do not forget the details. LOL.
I have had some odd experiences in the past with women but never any sexually transmitted deseases.
We called a couple of them fatal attractions. The kind that won't let go and follow you everywhere.
Show up at your work, house etc at all hours of the day and night.
One woman said look under the bed... I did and there was a shot gun. She said it had a bullet with my name on it if I were to see other women.
I left there and never went back. She showed up at my place of work and followed me for awhile until I told her I would get a restraining order.
Two other women just followed me everywhere and started yelling when I would come home late. They were seperate incidents. I was on the road doing stand up comedy all the time and I would get home late at night. always one of them would be in the drive in her car waiting for me. Then get out of the car and start on why was I so late and who was I with now etc.
You have to be careful you do not find a nut who stocks you or makes your life miserable or gives you a desease.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 7:03pm

I meant be careful as in don't walk down any dark alleys when you're out at 2 a.m.! ;-) It comes from

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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 8:11pm
I am like totally floored at how fast some of this or all of it ...LOL is happening for you/with you..
I have to agree 2nd 3rd 4th that which the other's have said about safety...
Forgive me if I am like sounding a bit dittzy at the moment but what is this line below in your post meaning?

**Hey, S, I hope I got the timeline right!!! Feel free to correct it. Should I tell them more.....cause there's lots more I could share ;)**

Were U really talking or posting to ~S the person you were posting about?~

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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 8:47pm

Hey Blue! Well girl you are turning into a stud! :lol: I'm just kidding with you. It's an exciting time in your life, enjoy it.

As far as "careful" goes, well you are a big girl and I'm sure you can take care of yourself. But, I will give you my version of "careful" for what ever it's worth. When I was a single fgp I would not engage in certain sex acts with someone I just met. I just felt like those things put me at an exposure risk. I won't get graphic but I will tell you that I've never met a lesbian who used a dental dam and leave it at that! :lol:

Also, just follow your gut. If something seems "off" with someone, there is probably something wrong. I can tell you plenty of crazy chick stories, but I'm sure most of us have a few. I'll tell you one of Shelley's crazy chick stories. She was in an AOL lesbian chat room, just hanging out chatting with friends. This was about 7 years ago. She was chatting with a woman who asked her what her weekend plans were. Shelley told her she was going camping in Mendocino, this other woman was a local. So, the weekend comes and Shelley and her friends pile into the RV and head off to Mendocino. They are just getting settled in when a little car pulls up. This chick knocks on the RV door and barges on in. Shelley's friends left thinking she would want to be alone with her, :lol: This crazy woman chased my poor girl all around that RV and told her she wanted her to be her "hoochie mama". This crazy woman was going to check every camp ground looking for her, but got lucky and found her right away.

Anyway, just use your common sense and enjoy!

Shannon

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Fri, 07-27-2007 - 9:26pm

WOW!!!! You go Blue!! You are racking up experience and I am learning by reading from it and everyone else's advice here! You are Having a Summer to remember.

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Roxy

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