I ODed on Banana Dream Cake

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I ODed on Banana Dream Cake
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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 2:16pm

Okay my body does not know how to react!!! I had a piece of Banana Dream Cake from Toojays...who knew that is a Gay hand out in my neck of the woods?...The boys were everywhere. Gay men are so sweet!

Oh you can make yourself sick on sugar...i had forgotten.

Anybody here have gay male friends? Do FGP and GMP hang out? Just wondering?

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Roxy

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 5:06pm


Hi roxy, the best way that I know how to come off of a sugar high is to drink lots of water, lol!

To answer your question, I have a lot of gay men friends. I'd like to think that I have friends, regardless of their orientation. But yes, I do. When I was younger and I was just coming out as a lesbian (don't you just love that word? :)) I came into the company of two gay men who became my mentors, one of which I have grown closer to. He and his lover have moved downstate in my home state.

I have come across a lot of gay men that have at some point mistaken me for a man, lol! (And this was before my transition)All I could do is laugh and assure them that, at the time, I was a lesbian. Today, I still have gay men as friends. Two, of which are a couple, one that is dating and the other that is dating also, but he's high maintenance, lol!

I guess I am also, lol! But anyway, I like gay men, they are more fun and very down to earth. But I love all four of them and they love me in return.

Great question,

Sebastian

 


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Sebastian


 


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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 5:08pm

I have a number of GMP's from the union. My two closest friends were there before they I came out to them, but they told me that they always had me pegged for "family." That made me laugh. They are like good buds for me and one of the guys is still technically married, but living apart. He has shared most of his story with me and that has helped me along. He and his X even go to family events together periodcally. On the union level we have a male coleader and female coleader of the GLBT caucus. It's funny, I was thinking about this yesterday. It seems like an easy alliance meeting together for issues and then going our separate ways. I have other GMP's, but the relationships are more casual.

It seems that we do not hang out, but I am just a baby dyke in the grand scheme of things, so I will now sit back and let the revered elders(have you seen this before Irish?) speak on this subject.

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Blue

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 5:22pm

Hey, babe, haven't heard from you in awhile! Things going well, I hope. Business good?

Things are just lovely here in CO. Just chillin' today. I am sort of crashing and have no excuse. I worked out this morning and it was horrible. I got through the whole cardio thing, but it was agony. Then I kept telling myself I could quit the core work, just for today, but some other evil part of me would not let me stop. There was some satisfaction with finishing, but no rush today. Perhaps it was the beer and dancing last night. I don't even like beer all that much. I woke up with a huge headache after only three glasses of the stuff.

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Blue

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 7:27pm

Oh Sebastian!! LOL! Always like to read your posts...lol. Drinking my H2O and telling myself to NOT do that again!!! and yes... I do like that word, Lesbian.

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Roxy

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 7:32pm

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 7:33pm

The male gay friends I've had have been FABULOUS!

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 8:10pm

Sorry to hear you are crashing today! I feel the same...but from sugar. Yes, business growing. Been real focused on it. Also...laying low lately. Keeping things low profile regarding my k. Just doing life!

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Roxy

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 8:25pm

Yes! That is so true about being with GMP's. They hang around with you and talk about everything. I just love that!

Blue

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 10:53pm

The 'nanner cake sounds delish, my gramma used to make banana pudding with the cookies in it and I still love it!

I have several gay men friends, one of them I have known for many, many years, since around 1980 I think. He and his partner are two of the best people you'd ever want to meet, and I am glad to be their friend.

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 11:05pm

Gay men make the best friends because they care about you as a person and they aren't trying to sleep with you! :lol: A cool gay man is a gay or straight chicks best friend! I have a gay male coworker that I am close to. He knows my partner too so we are all friendly. We don't do much with him socially because he is really young and parties hard.......and we don't! :lol: He's a sweet soul and I love him to bits and pieces.

Shannon

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