Life is a Pain in the A .....Neck

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Life is a Pain in the A .....Neck
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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 6:49pm

Where to begin?

I got a speeding ticket in July, truly my fault.
I got a tattoo against dh's expressed wishes
The windshield on the rental car is cracked as of this morning. It's going to be big bucks
Oh, yeah, I'm gay.

Where would you start telling dh????

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Blue

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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 6:56pm

Well tell him you got a speeding ticket while chasing down a hot babe and when she let you catch her, you slammed on the brakes and hit the windshield with your shoulder and cracked it, but got a tattoo to cover up the scar from the stitches.

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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 7:04pm

Tell him everything else first, once you tell him you're a lesbian he'll forget about all the rest...........

((((((((Blue)))))))))

Shannon

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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 7:31pm
I agree with Shannon on this. Tell him everything else first. Then tell him you are gay.
When do you plan to tell him? Tomorrow? Or give him sometime first to visit with you?
Oh (((((Blue))))).
Lot's of bear hugs for you.
Laurie
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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 8:20pm

Can you see me sitting here laughing 'cause I am. Can you call him and tell him for me?

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Blue

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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 8:22pm

Friday sometime. I think I need to call my therapist for the right words. Thanks for the hugs. I'm gonna need them.

Blue

Visit with me????

BLUE DIA
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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 8:28pm
Yes, visit with you.
Don't you just hang out and talk about things, especially since you have had seperate vacations.
Example; Each morning and evening Sheila and I sit and talk over coffee or tea etc. Just about things or our day etc.
Just kind of visit with each other.
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Laurie
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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 8:31pm

Um, yes, usually at dinner after work. He leaves very early. I don't know how much "visiting" I can do. "So, dear, tell me about Florida and by the way, I'm gay." That's a good opener. Of course, my mom and I visited for awhile before I told her."

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Blue

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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 8:39pm
"SO, dear, I hear alot of gays flock to Florida... sorry I didn't go..."
Laurie

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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 9:09pm

You'll find the words somehow. I remember when I told my Ex H that not only was I a lesbian, but in love with a woman and leaving him for that woman.........I was shaking so hard my teeth were chattering and I could barely speak. It was hard, but I did it somehow. It hurt and it was a horrible time, but I also felt like the weight off the world was off me. I could breathe again and I felt like a giant. It was a hard 9 months from that until our divorce was final, but I would do it again in a heartbeat. Nothing worth having or doing is easy........and that was probably the hardest thing I've ever done. It was also the best gift I've ever given myself, freedom to be me. No one else could give me that, I had to do it.

(((Blue)))) you have so many people rooting for you and sending strength and positive thoughts your way.

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Wed, 08-08-2007 - 11:37pm

Thanks, hon, between you and all the other women who have done this, I know it can be done, but it is so freakin' scary. I ready and I'm game.

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Blue

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