The Circle Has Closed

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Registered: 03-25-2007
The Circle Has Closed
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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 6:10pm

Today is the official "Closing of the Circle" as we told ds about the situation. His gf was there, also. The funny thing was that about 2 months ago(perhaps some of you remember my angst) he found the book "Married to a Man, In Love With A Woman" so he knew too.

I want to just tell you all that as I step back, clinically, it is evolving into something else. It's seems that everybody is reasonably okay with the lesbian thing. It is changing into, well, my dh said that he always sees attractive women, but he has never done anything. He has been devoted to ME. If that were only true. I was the one for him. So we've moved on a little. He said this in front of ds today and I am unwilling to discuss our marriage relationship in front of my son. I wish I could tell you that the marriage was wonderful, yada, yada, but in previous threads many of you have said that ther is something wrong with your marriage, Blue, it's just not the lesbian thing. Yeah.......such wisdom.

Nobody is home right now, but me, so I am a little relieved, but relaxed. Just waiting and wondering.

Hugs

Blue

BLUE DIA

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Wed, 08-15-2007 - 1:23am
(((((((((((((( Blue

 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 08-15-2007 - 1:11pm
(((BLUE))) Good job. *SMILE*
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Registered: 03-25-2007
Wed, 08-15-2007 - 4:45pm

Thanks, girl, I'm feeling it miles away.

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Wed, 08-15-2007 - 4:46pm

Rogue, coming from you, that's all I need. Such a stable influence. Thank you.

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Wed, 08-15-2007 - 8:41pm

(((BLUE)))

Roxy

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Sat, 08-18-2007 - 8:45pm

Aw Amy...thanks.

Spring SiggyBlinkie
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Sun, 08-19-2007 - 9:28pm

Storm-I always look forward to hearing from you. Long or short-concise or long and flowy. You and I are word lovers and sometimes we need to indulge in more lengthy replies, and sometimes we need to keep it short and sweet.

The latter for me, as I'm tired from dancing at the Castro!

Hugs,

Amy

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