Thurs. Thoughts.... Health annnd SeX...

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Thurs. Thoughts.... Health annnd SeX...
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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 7:09am

Morning ALL!


Once again Shannon gave me some food to for thought.

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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 9:32pm
I have never seen a dental dam, but am told they look like a wind sock.
Sheila and I did not practice safe sex but each of us had had AIDS tests due to her ex g/f cheating on her and my sexual assault. So we knew we were safe.
Before that I had another AIDS test and two of them in the Navy and so far so good. I used to and sometimes still do worry about dying of AIDS because of my assault by a man who had a list as long as your arm of sexual assualt charges.
This was in a Swiss court and they read all his past charges.
Sheila and I have used condoms for the sensation not to practice safe sex. Of course we try everything we can think of.
We have been together for 10 years now so no need to practice safe sex anymore.
Laurie
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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 9:44pm

Yes, mom Shannon and mother Caly, I will make the appt for the colonoscopy when I get my other cyst done. Promise. Surprise, surprise, dh said he would even take off work to pick me up. This is something he would NEVER have done before the Coming Out Ceremony, better known as the "Shattering of the Family."

Sue

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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 9:48pm

LOL another other Dr's apptointments you need that I can badger you about? Mammogram? Pap smear? Bone density scan? LOL

Shannon

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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 9:49pm

Yeeah, right next to the sign that says, "welcome to Pennsylvania." "You've Got A Friend in Pennsylvania," and "It would be SUE, the Lesbian Homewrecker. All women are welcome."

A bit cynical, Laurie, but it has been one of the worst days today. No sobbing from dh, but my son came after me and finally got to me. I broke and snapped back for the first time, and he was just merciless and cruel in return. I know that I deserve it, but I don't have to like it.

Hugs

Sue

BLUE DIA
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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 9:53pm

No, babe, I do all of those along with teeth, eyes, and a physical with blood work every year. Are you following your own advice over there?

Hugs

Sue

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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 10:15pm

Of course I'm following my own advice, and if you believe that I have a bridge to sell you! But, in anticipation of starting the respiratory therapy program in January I need to get a physical, update my tetanus, stop dragging my feet and get my root canal done and I need a pap smear..........LOL.

Shannon

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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 10:47pm
Hey blue,
Don't ever think you "deserve" being treated cruelly, will ya??? Hope you feel better soon, i.e. tomorrow after a good night's sleep.
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Fri, 08-17-2007 - 7:17am
Shannon, real good point about the toys. Even if you are with someone exclusively, you need to stay safe and healthy and protect each other.

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Fri, 08-17-2007 - 7:18am
Wow I never realized that it would be so prevalent.

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Fri, 08-17-2007 - 7:22am

Hey Laurie,


Thanks for your reply.

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