Dating Scene

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Registered: 05-20-2007
Dating Scene
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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 11:04am

So, I'm not really "dating". But I went out again last night with my friend to a "meet-up". I wasn't as nervous this time. It was here in town and I figured I could just leave if needed. It was at a gay bar downtown. Let me tell you about drunks! I mean, I had a couple of beers, and I'm okay with drinking, but there were some women who I just could not steer clear of enough!

So in walks the woman from last weekend who referred to me a "bisexual". I have a confession. Of all the women I've met, she and I hit it off the best. We kept gravitating towards one another and have lots to talk about. She was much nicer last night. Actually, she was nice last weekend except for that comment. She just left a relationship that was as long as my marriage.

Okay what's my point? I'm not sure I can do this. I like being around the women, I like some of the flirting and sparkling conversation. But dating? One lesbian friend of mine told me women don't date. What the heck do they do then? People-I'm lost here. Or is it just so new that I need more time? I tell you, I really lay in bed at night and wonder how I got here. What am I doing? I sometimes feel like I should pack up and return home for the comfort. But that's the easy thing. Kind of late for that too-considering I told the dh and can't really go back into the closet.

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hugs,

Amy

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In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 7:42pm
Board mothers have a right to be right and look out when we are bored.

 PPCLSIG.jpg picture by CalyD44

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Registered: 03-25-2007
In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 7:45pm

Good for you! Bumping fists with ya. For a good late Thursday, you can always "get through" Friday. Just put it on cruise control. lol

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 05-20-2007
In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:03pm
It's Thelma Blue Sue
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In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:06pm

I swear I posted "Thelma Blue Sue" before I saw your response to Caly. too funny

Amy Louise

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Registered: 03-25-2007
In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:15pm

How about this line?

For you, baby, it's anything you want.......**slow smile with peircing eyes meant just for you**

TBS

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 03-25-2007
In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:17pm

Uh huh. That's what they all say.

FGP-TBS

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 05-20-2007
In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:36pm

I need a cold shower

AL

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In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:37pm

Have you stepped away from the computer yet and gone to bed? You're getting slap-happy.

AL

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Registered: 03-25-2007
In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:41pm

No, I have hopefully just talked Moondaizy into going to a bar with lesbian bands. I wish we had something like that around here or I wish I knew of something around here. Every time I think I have caught up with all the threads, somebody posts again. I am trying to clean this all up.

Together.........?**weg** Samelessly hitting on you

FGP-TBS

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 05-20-2007
In reply to: passiongrl
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:43pm

I know you're still around because I responded to Moondaizy after seeing your responded to her.

You know-all this shameless flirting is so safe. I'd have to find out what you're made of if you were closer.

FGP AL