The Strangest Thing

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Registered: 07-26-2007
The Strangest Thing
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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 4:09pm
Hey all isn't the strangest thing when you are with someone you have a major crush on and you just can't be yourself?I mean I am usually so calm,cool and collected until I get around my crush and it all goes out the door,I can't talk right and I get so nervous and fidget.I feel like such a doofus some times.How do you all respond when you are around someone you like?Oh I will be putting on a profile here soon so you all can know more about me.Catch ya'll later!!Hugs!! Michelle : )

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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 5:11pm

Well TiNG can tell you the first time we met in person, she got so nervous she spillled a whole pitcher of water LOL.

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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 5:25pm

Well I have a partner and I don't have a "crush" on this woman but I still act like a moron when I see her! She's a student at my school and every day last semster I saw her on campus. I don't even know her name, but she's really attractive. Everytime she'd walk past me I'd do something stupid like choke on my coffee.......oy!

You aren't the only doofus,

Shannon

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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 5:36pm

Okay-you guys are going to think I'm a chump for all the fitness instructors. But the one who started this whole thing for me-I get all goofy around her-and her with me. Sometimes we chill enough to actually have a decent conversation.

Then there's another instructor and I take a few of her classes too. She's got the most incredible body-after 4 kids! Lately she's been commenting on my progress and just chatting. One day she made a comment that she sees more of me than she sees her dh. Anyway-whenever she talks to me, I turn into an idiot. If you could see me in meetings with parents of my students, or any other situation where I have to appear even remotely intelligent-you'd be impressed. But then I get around these women-where did I go?!

Real smooth operator. But you know, when I'm at these bars lately, I'm totally smoother. I think around these other women-who I assume are straight-but maybe not-I feel I can't just relax. I think it must be written all over my face!

Hugs,

Amy

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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 6:22pm

I know the feeling. Believe it or not, I can be in a roomful of people, and when a woman comes around me, to either go to the other side of the room, or to ask me a question. I get this real stupid grin on my face,and I lose the ability to speak like I have some intelligence.

It's worse when I'm in class, and a woman asks me a question about a long term assignment that I'm working on. My mouth goes dry and I begin to run my fingers on my hair (like my hair's going to get up and leave my head, roflol!). Of course, when I answer her and she's looking at me as I'm answering her, I suddenly become self-conscience. After I've answered her question, I then scrunch down in a little ball and try to disappear, roflmaoooooo!

Thanks,

hugs,

Sebastian

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 7:48pm

LOL, SB. Found your words with me......smooth talker that you were.

Blue

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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 7:54pm

I know just what you are talking about. I am normally a pretty shy(Caly, be quiet here.)person until I get comfortable with the people that I am with. If I am particularly attracted to a woman, my mind will not go into gear and make small talk. It's why I did not do well in Lesbian Pick Up Lines here on campus. lol

So, what do you do? Yeah......not a stunning line. I have no advice for you. When I am comfortable, I am in control and I can think up loads of things to say, when I meet people for the first time, I think they must think I am an idiot. Okay, Rogue, I hear you typing as fast as you can "just for the first time?"

Blue

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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:19pm

LOL *wink *wink.

Sometimes when I'm expecting to meet a hot woman like yourself, I put the "shy-boy" away and just turn on the charm lol!

It's usually, when a woman comes around me, when I least expect it is when the "shy-boy" comes out. Oh, btw, did you get your email that I sent you?

roflmaoooooo!

 


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Sebastian


 


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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 11:41pm
Hi Love,
I am usually the composed one. I like it when a woman gets all goofy in front of me though. I smile and wink.
It is cute.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Sat, 08-25-2007 - 12:09pm

I just clam up and my brain is non-functioning. lolol Whatever does come out of my mouth is stupid and inane. arrrggghhh

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Sun, 08-26-2007 - 8:10pm

Yep, boss, I did, but I haven't done anything with it yet, 'cause I was out of town. I plan to check it out later, if I can get through these posts.

Thanks, hon, and you say the sweetest things!

Hugs

Blue

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