Need a push

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Registered: 06-10-2005
Need a push
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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:26pm

I need some encouragement and a big push!

I posted a few days ago that I'm trying to get back out again. Well tonight I'd like to go to a lesbian bar that has live bands out on the patio every Friday night. The band usually starts around 9:00-9:30 and I have 2 hours to get there.

I'm very shy and don't do well in public gatherings alone, but I'm never going to meet people unless I do it.

How do I get up the nerve to drive there and walk into this place alone?

Acck! I hate being so shy and scared!

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Registered: 03-25-2007
In reply to: moondaizy
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:53pm

I like Dallas. Never saw a gay bar there, but I wasn't actually looking the last time I was there. You'll need time to find a park, check things out. You'll need time in the car to take some deep breaths and do some "self talk." See, I know, oh so well, wha this takes. I went to Patricks Pub all by myself(this bar bar) on Drag Queen night.

So, I think if you leave around 8:45-9ish, that would be good.

Blue

BLUE DIA
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Registered: 06-10-2005
In reply to: moondaizy
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:54pm

I'm going to leave now and make the drive to Dallas. If I sit around another 30 minutes thinking about it I will lose my nerve.

Blue and Amy, Thank you!

*smoooochies*

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Registered: 06-10-2005
In reply to: moondaizy
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 8:58pm

There is actually an entire strip with a bunch of gay/lesbian bars, shops and eating places. Next time you're in Dallas I can tell you where to go.

Ok, off I go!
*hugs*

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Registered: 04-25-2003
In reply to: moondaizy
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 10:27pm
oh geez, I was hoping that by the time I got to the end of this thread you would have been and gone and posted an update. Guess I better tune in again tomorrow for the sequel...

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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: moondaizy
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 10:31pm
Haaaaa Ven, me too. I figured I would be hearing an update by the end of the thread. It kept me going. Now I have to wait too.
I am thinking there won't be any seats in Dallas on Girl Band Night unless you got there really early.
Hear it is almost impossible to get a seat on girl band night in a les bar. with les bands.
Oh well will wait for part two.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Registered: 05-20-2007
In reply to: moondaizy
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 10:51pm

Well, I was just pulling stuff out of my a$$. Hopefully you'll come up with something better. Remember-I'm new at this too.

Amy

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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: moondaizy
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 11:21pm
At least you got her up and going, that is the first step! Good work!
Hugs,
Laurie
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Registered: 09-29-2003
In reply to: moondaizy
Sat, 08-25-2007 - 2:07am

Haa.... I am ROFLOL at this post.... cause it brings back memories of me and a friend I had


 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: moondaizy
Sat, 08-25-2007 - 10:08am

Whooooooo Hooooooooo Moondaisy!

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Registered: 05-20-2007
In reply to: moondaizy
Sat, 08-25-2007 - 10:15am

Hey Caly. If you read in the "100's" thread you'll see I was always a teacher's pet!

Can't wait to hear an update

Amy