talking about it w/out talking directly

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Registered: 06-05-2007
talking about it w/out talking directly
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Sun, 08-26-2007 - 10:15pm

Ummm. I need to talk about K. But it may not be smart. I am feeling a little shutdown and restless (weird combination of feelings). She is working on her stuff. NC for a while.

I feel so....odd. I am okay about the NC. But my feelings of detachment (healthy) make me feel so odd at the same time. Part of me feel numb and i hate that feeling. It makes me feel uncomfortable. I cant put my finger on it.

I dont know. I just wanted to put it out there and not feel so isolated about it.

Cant go into details... Anyway feels good just to reach out.

Hugs to all.

Roxy

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Registered: 04-23-2006
Mon, 08-27-2007 - 7:12am

Roxy,


We always want people to only post when they feel safe here, but can I at least ask Why you can't talk about it?


Sending supporting hugs across the miles (((((((((Roxy)))))))))))

*Hugs


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Mon, 08-27-2007 - 8:07am

Sorry that you feel like you can't share what's going on. Sometimes just asking for a hug is a good thing. But I do hope that you are ok.

Hugs,

Seb

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Registered: 06-05-2007
Mon, 08-27-2007 - 8:22am
I feel safe...but *her* safety may have been compromized....at home
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Mon, 08-27-2007 - 8:23am

Thanks Seb...yeah I am okay. It was helpful to talk about feelings and sort things out when i did. This place is great for that. I will take the hug!

Roxy

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Mon, 08-27-2007 - 8:27am

Ok here you are *Sebastian opens his arms and closes them around you and gives you a gentle, respectful squeeze and lets you go.

Seb

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Registered: 06-05-2007
Mon, 08-27-2007 - 9:13am

awww thank you! I hate when i feel so groundless. Could be just life stress.

Hugs back

Roxy

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Mon, 08-27-2007 - 11:52am

(((((Roxy))))


I'm sure you'll be feeling lots of different things as your relationship with K changes and her circumstances change.


I hope she is ok. Post whatever words you need to - we've got lots of hugs to go around.


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Registered: 06-10-2005
Mon, 08-27-2007 - 12:23pm

*hugs* Roxy,

Hang in there and hopefully things will get better soon. I am so sorry...but I have no idea what NC means.

Keep your chin up

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Mon, 08-27-2007 - 12:55pm

Thanks Ting...i just feel so detached. And that detached feeling is uncomfortable to me. I feel a little flat. And generally i dont feel flat. I think i tend to be very aware of feelings and watch myself for slight signs of depression. I fought depression in my 20s...the killer kind, so i take a lot of proactive measures-- like i even abstain from alcohol because of its depressive qualities.

This gray feeling is over me now...not sadness...just nothing. Why dont i miss, miss miss her more? I just seem to want to be alone? Maybe it's left over anxiety from visiting family. Or just needing alone time..ugh

Hugs

Roxy

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Registered: 06-05-2007
Mon, 08-27-2007 - 12:57pm

((moondaizy!)) Thanks...! NC= no contact.

We have NC right now...

Hugs

Roxy

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