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| Sun, 09-02-2007 - 2:03pm |
hi guys~~~~~ i'll just get straight to the point. man.. i really do need some advice here. i'm in love with this girl, for freaking lotsa yrs and counting....we are very important to each other. she turned gay a few yrs back. i recently told her how i felt even though i already knew she doesn't feel the same way. she was shocked obviously. but after we gave each other some space to think abt it. she wants me to never leave her, i know i am important but at the same time i knew there was trust issues within her n its nt easy for her to find someone whom she can trust. but at the same time i know i can't leave her. i don't know what to do, and i don't want to stay stagnant on the ground...........
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you are right cl-tings-tang(you have a really interesting screen name there) i'm a great fan of manga and anime!! how old's ur child? hope he has seen some really good manga & animes. hope you guys are watching them together, it's cool to have the same interest.
i just thought that it was unfair to her as well, as i lied to her all these years and being a 'friend' when i really wasn't quite one. if you get what i mean. so it would be really ridiculous for her to first have someone important to confess and next to leave her alone, stranded. maybe now being by her side as a friend is my way of loving her. i guess life's never perfect, so we can't always have what we want. i'll heed ur advice though, thank you for responding ;) it felt great knowing someone could share a part of it.
You deserve to be loved back the way you love too. She is being unfaur if she does not want to allow you the right to have a 50/50 relationship.
I hope you can work it out with her, you deserve better.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Hi again Ren!
And all this time I thought you and Ting just really like the drink Tang. LOL Well, that is what I get for thinking! :)
Pass me a YooHoo,
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ROFL!!
No trust me, I prefer Yoohoo over Tang anytime!
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hey lauriedav,
i guess i'm wrong, i'm here not asking for help lol. more like now i'm just rabbling on n on abt the rubbish that's going on my life. no worries, i've been dealing with this for years alrdy. but i know i'm stupid enough not to be able to let go. maybe i deserve better, but maybe she deserves better too. nobody's right i guess.
but thank you for your reply. really appreciate it.
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