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Registered: 09-02-2007
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Sun, 09-02-2007 - 2:03pm

hi guys~~~~~ i'll just get straight to the point. man.. i really do need some advice here. i'm in love with this girl, for freaking lotsa yrs and counting....we are very important to each other. she turned gay a few yrs back. i recently told her how i felt even though i already knew she doesn't feel the same way. she was shocked obviously. but after we gave each other some space to think abt it. she wants me to never leave her, i know i am important but at the same time i knew there was trust issues within her n its nt easy for her to find someone whom she can trust. but at the same time i know i can't leave her. i don't know what to do, and i don't want to stay stagnant on the ground...........

help.

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Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: ren_hachi
Mon, 09-03-2007 - 11:38am

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Registered: 09-02-2007
In reply to: ren_hachi
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 10:12am

you are right cl-tings-tang(you have a really interesting screen name there) i'm a great fan of manga and anime!! how old's ur child? hope he has seen some really good manga & animes. hope you guys are watching them together, it's cool to have the same interest.

i just thought that it was unfair to her as well, as i lied to her all these years and being a 'friend' when i really wasn't quite one. if you get what i mean. so it would be really ridiculous for her to first have someone important to confess and next to leave her alone, stranded. maybe now being by her side as a friend is my way of loving her. i guess life's never perfect, so we can't always have what we want. i'll heed ur advice though, thank you for responding ;) it felt great knowing someone could share a part of it.

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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: ren_hachi
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 11:51am
You should probably move on relationship wise and stay with her as a close and loving friendship relationship.
You deserve to be loved back the way you love too. She is being unfaur if she does not want to allow you the right to have a 50/50 relationship.
I hope you can work it out with her, you deserve better.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: ren_hachi
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 7:30am

Hi again Ren!

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Registered: 03-28-2007
In reply to: ren_hachi
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 8:21pm

And all this time I thought you and Ting just really like the drink Tang. LOL Well, that is what I get for thinking! :)

Pass me a YooHoo,

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Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: ren_hachi
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 8:46pm

ROFL!!


No trust me, I prefer Yoohoo over Tang anytime!

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Registered: 09-29-2003
In reply to: ren_hachi
Thu, 09-06-2007 - 12:48am
Goodness ...I haven't had Tang in a long long long long

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Registered: 03-28-2007
In reply to: ren_hachi
Thu, 09-06-2007 - 7:28am
No matter what scientific evidence is brought forth to me. It is within my firm belief and sense to not be swayed that YooHoos are good for me. LOL :)
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Registered: 09-29-2003
In reply to: ren_hachi
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 1:20am
Heh Heh..

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Registered: 09-02-2007
In reply to: ren_hachi
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 12:20pm

hey lauriedav,
i guess i'm wrong, i'm here not asking for help lol. more like now i'm just rabbling on n on abt the rubbish that's going on my life. no worries, i've been dealing with this for years alrdy. but i know i'm stupid enough not to be able to let go. maybe i deserve better, but maybe she deserves better too. nobody's right i guess.

but thank you for your reply. really appreciate it.

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