So, been kinda busy

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So, been kinda busy
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Sun, 09-09-2007 - 7:12pm

So Blue calls me today to make sure I'm okay because I haven't been around. Well, I was kind of busy with a.....well.....how do I put this......a woman. And the ironic thing is that it's the woman-you remember the one-the one that called me "bisexual" on my outing to SF?

Let me start off by saying we are taking it slow. Both of us just got out of 12 year relationships and want to get to know each other. I'm pretty happy with the pace so far.

So how did we end up together? Every outing I went on she was there. Funny thing is we both told ourselves that we weren't going to be interested in one another because of the "complications". But it was pretty pointless, as we are just drawn to one another and we decided to go on a date this weekend. Before the date we spent a lot of time on the phone and learned a lot about each other.

I could really go into details, but let's just say our motto is one day at a time. Now, this should be everyone's motto, but for this situation it's so vital. She's afraid of all the things I still have to go through, as am I. I'm afraid I won't be able to give her all she wants. She's single, no kids. The relationship she was in there was a kid involved, so she's done that. Anyway, she's also 9 years older, but that really has no bearing on this at all. I like older women.

So, I'm trying to just breathe at this point. I'm enjoying what's happening. If I don't think too far ahead, I really smile ear to ear. She didn't want to like me, but couldn't help it. How good does that feel? After everything I've been through this far, it feels damn good.

Is this really happening? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hugs,

Amy

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Sun, 09-09-2007 - 7:18pm

I've been wondering where you are! I can feel your happiness in your post! Enjoy it all, one day at a time. I'm so happy and excited for you.............you never know what life will bring your way.

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Shannon

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Sun, 09-09-2007 - 8:27pm

Well, hon, you know how I feel. I am just busting out with happiness for you!

Blue

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Sun, 09-09-2007 - 8:48pm
Sounds like you are having a good time. I am really happy for you.
I wondered where you have been. I also wondered about you and that woman from the beginning when you mentionede her, like yeah, watch them get together.
Haaaaa, you take it one day at a time and have fun.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Sun, 09-09-2007 - 8:56pm

Whooohooooooooo


Communication is the key from the very beginning and it sounds like you are both being honest and upfront which is what counts.


ENJOY!!

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Sun, 09-09-2007 - 10:16pm

Hi Shannon. Thanks for the good thoughts. It's true about not knowing what life will bring our way. My therapist asked me what "kind" of woman I was attracted to. I told her I'd know when I saw her. Then there she was. I kind of knew it that first night, but it got pretty obvious after each meeting.

But we are trying not to hurry-get in over our heads. We'll see where it goes.

Hugs,

Amy

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Sun, 09-09-2007 - 10:17pm

Hey Thelma. I'm trying not to get ahead of myself-just breathe! Neither one of us is renting the uhaul yet-but we laugh about how fast it can happen. I'll keep you updated.

How did your phone call turn out after we hung up? Thinking about you babe

Hugs,

Amy

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Sun, 09-09-2007 - 10:20pm

Laurie-you're too funny. It is funny how two people can meet and start out. We'll see where it goes from here. I have lots of details if you want :-}.

Hugs,

Amy

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Sun, 09-09-2007 - 10:23pm

Hi Caly. We are really talking about so much stuff-trying to really get to know each other and what the other expects/wants. I think that if we really keep those lines open we could make something special-at least for a while. We'll see.

Thanks for the positive vibes.

Hugs,

Amy

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 8:06am
Yes, of course I want details. I love the details. I enjoy hearing how people meet etc. That's the romantic in me.
Plus, I just had a feeling about the two of you...
Details please!
Hugs,
Laurie
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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 10:37am

Hey Laurie. I started to post details, but thought better of it because someone we both know may lurk here. But I'm eager to share. Can I email you?

Hugs,

Amy

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