I really think this is a good thing. Your being concerned about not feeling bad says that you DO care. I remember your having strained correspondence with K's best friend in the past. I'm glad you and she can talk now.
I think you should just enjoy what you have right now. Life is too short not to. Revel in the peace you are experiencing, and if K comes back to you someday, perhaps you will have an even stronger relationship because of the clarity you have found.
K sounds like a good person, and I'm sure she does not want you to hurt anymore.
Hi Roxy, I think that the fact that you are working on you and your business is helping alot. That way you are not dwelling on K. But I believe those feelings will come rushing back when you see her again. And if they don't then do not be alarmed just now that you grew apart while she took time to grow in her way too. For now keep doing what you have been doing it seems to be working for you so you are not miserable. Hugs,
I think you are in a good place right now. Got the business kicking butt and your feelings very centered. K is in her own place, also, working on the things she needs to take care of. When it is all over and done with her, I am so hoping that you two will both look at each other and just melt into one. I admire for having the courage not to have any contact with her. It's gotta be so hard. I do remember in the beginning, that you were pretty broken up over it. I think that now you know more of who you are, what you want, and what you are willing to sacrifice for. Stick to it, sister, for as long as you need to.
Thanks Blue...who knows what will happen...she might even work things out with H. Her BF swears that is not happening. I do feel good. I feel good about me and that is all
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*Sebastian puts a small yellow rose on Roxy's lap.
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Hi Roxy.
Nothing wrong roxy, you are in a good place. Kind of residing with peace, serenity, clarity...fear isn't invited to your
Thanks Sebastian, Amy and Ataraxias. You words were wonderful and helped me immeasurably.
(((((((Roxy))))))
I really think this is a good thing. Your being concerned about not feeling bad says that you DO care. I remember your having strained correspondence with K's best friend in the past. I'm glad you and she can talk now.
I think you should just enjoy what you have right now. Life is too short not to. Revel in the peace you are experiencing, and if K comes back to you someday, perhaps you will have an even stronger relationship because of the clarity you have found.
K sounds like a good person, and I'm sure she does not want you to hurt anymore.
Hugs
I think that the fact that you are working on you and your business is helping alot. That way you are not dwelling on K.
But I believe those feelings will come rushing back when you see her again. And if they don't then do not be alarmed just now that you grew apart while she took time to grow in her way too.
For now keep doing what you have been doing it seems to be working for you so you are not miserable.
Hugs,
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Thanks Sweet women (Ting and Laurie) This is helping me so much. I like what you said Laurie...that all the feeling will likely rush back!
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Roxy
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Hey, Rox,
I think you are in a good place right now. Got the business kicking butt and your feelings very centered. K is in her own place, also, working on the things she needs to take care of. When it is all over and done with her, I am so hoping that you two will both look at each other and just melt into one. I admire for having the courage not to have any contact with her. It's gotta be so hard. I do remember in the beginning, that you were pretty broken up over it. I think that now you know more of who you are, what you want, and what you are willing to sacrifice for. Stick to it, sister, for as long as you need to.
I'll be here to listen.
Hugs
Blue
Thanks Blue...who knows what will happen...she might even work things out with H. Her BF swears that is not happening. I do feel good. I feel good about me and that is all
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