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Wed, 11-07-2007 - 11:43am

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In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 2:18pm

Wow! That was fast! I do hope everything works out for her and that it progresses smoothly and swiftly. And then, hopefully you can reconnect with her.


Keep us updated and enjoy your alone time! It's good for the soul sometimes.


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In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 4:13pm
Just the news you had been waiting for I am guessing?

So where does this leave you? Are you not still married yourself?

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In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 4:33pm

Actually I had done a lot of really healthy detaching..so I was not waiting for any specific news. Which it also meant a lot of growing on my part in terms of allowing things to unfold and not messing them up with my pesky human ego...*smile*

So ...I did not wait in that sense..but I was not dating nor

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In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 4:48pm

Heck yes that was FAST!! I think it will move very slow though...so i am taking it slowly too. Ever heard of a lesbian taking things SLOW!!!

That is US ...after all my previous experiences...lol...i need slow and steady and sane...Actually K is so steady and deliberate...awwww... She sooths me when she talks to me...


I understand slow...she is the best mama on this planet...and she is going to do what she needs carefully.


It just turns out ...that is what i will need to. Slow.


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Roxy

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In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 6:23pm

Well, Rox, this certainly does sound positive for you. It is very interesting the way you perceive your directions with relationships. I admire your quiet resolve in the whole matter. You must also be very organized to be able to set limits and goals the way that you do.


Your relationship with your dh is amazing. I had originally thought of a similar relationship with my stbxh, and he thought so, too, for about 10 minutes. I am more actively involved with my love and he cannot sit by and watch that happen, and rightfully so.


All I can say is that this is good for you.


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Blue

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In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 6:37pm

Well Blue...i may be relying on you guys as time goes by. I so deeply thank you for your words. I dont know how this will work out. I feel grounded and sane and that is good...okay a little friskey..but hey! *wink*


Okay a lot friskey! LOL! DH...said...dont be "too good of a girl...have fun...go out"..LOL! I wont..but...if you were here i'd say lets got to Faces...the local dike bar...of course with your GFs okay.! LOL!


Oh i dreamt i went out as soon as he left town and tried to hook up with every lesbian i know...and you know how those dreams are...you dont quite get to the good part? Ugh! I told DH later...we laughed and he said, "Ttoo bad you did not get to the good part!"


He loves me unconditionally. I wish your H did (((BLUE))) God knows that

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In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 6:43pm

Hey, if I was there I would go to Faces with you. I don't need my gf's permission. She trusts me, as well she should. It would be fun, though. Maybe in March.....


Met my stbxh last night to look at divorce papers. This is going to be a very good, sweet, vanilla type divorce. We had a great chat and talked about things like in the old days. Things were okay until we got ready to leave. At the cars I gave him a little kiss goodbye and a hug. Roxy, he cried. I felt really bad. I was hoping that we could maybe meet once a month for coffee or dinner, but that crying emotinally takes it's toll on me. I mean, he's not a bad guy or anything. It's sad.


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Blue

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In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 6:45pm

He cried....((((oh BLUE))))) nothing sadder than to see a man cry...i swear....it would do me in. I am sorry honey! I really am. I am glad every thing else was smooth...


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Roxy

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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 8:11pm

Yeaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! Let's have a party for you. I'll bring the ice cream !


"Thoughts are things! Think Good ones!"

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Registered: 06-05-2007
In reply to: roxy_blue
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 8:16pm

Thanks! I have mixed emotions...i am cautious and excited and kind of sad for her..it is not a happy thing she will be doing...all kinds of feelings about it. All mixed with me talking to myself to "take it very slow and slower still"


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