I'm worried about my Son...
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| Mon, 05-02-2005 - 12:47pm |
Hi All,
I hjave 4 yr. old twin Boys.
Last week my son Justin said that he was sick and was going to vomit. He cried and asked for Daddy. Daddy came home and helped Justin, he never did vomit.
Last night Justin fell off his bed, shortly after he said that he was going to be sick. he cried real tears ans just wanted to sleep in out bed. We let him.
Then today he said again that his belly was upset and that he was going to be sick.
I asked him if that was the truth or a lie, he said that it was a lie.
My family had been through so much this year and I am hoping that Justin is ok. It may be that he just wants "his daddy" and knows that if he's sick Daddy will come home or be with him. I hope that its just a ploy to get Daddy home.
During this whole year we have made sure that the Boys are taken care of first and foremost. They come 1st no matter what.
They aren't in daycare and during all the sickness they have been babysat by family or close friends, that was only if one of us couldn't be there (which wasn't often) So I don't see how he's lacking attention. They really didn't know what was going on with any of us, true they do sense it but its not like I tell them details. We hide it as best we can.
Has anyone dealt with this. Could it just be that he wants Daddy and that I'm overreaction worring about him?
OMG that precious little Boy just came into my room and he's wearing his red feet PJ's and his Dora backpack. He had a bloody nose...
Heather
This is so hard, I just want to be happy and live happily ever after with my family. I HATE putting them through this.

Heather,
Don't worry what you are putting them through. If I told you what my family has been through the last couple years, you wouldn't believe it. But still, people tell me I have polite, helpful boys. But that doesn't mean they are at home! lol. Kids will save the worst for us, because they love us, and because they have to test us. I have worked with 4-year old for 3 years now. They do tell lies, and they are just learning about the difference between make-believe and lies, etc. He may or may not really have a tummy ache. Either way, he will be okay! Don't beat yourself up for it -- I don't know how you could try any harder than you are right now to get things as right as you can! Be proud of yourself, and just be there for your children the best way you can right now.
Renee