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Fri, 05-06-2005 - 10:48am
What do you mean by control boundaries???? I know that there are many many things in life that I can not control, and I am learning to "go with the flow". But doesn't everyone get upset when things go wrong??????????????
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Fri, 05-06-2005 - 11:49pm

Please don't go heavily negative here because plans, dreams, outcomes all go "wrong" at times.

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Sat, 05-07-2005 - 5:34pm

Yup!!!!! That's just what I use to do. Mind you use to do. I still have to stop myself once in awhile and self-talk me out of the things I am feeling.

My main problem is self-esteem. I am working with my "new" therapist (4th one in a year)
about this right now. I have no insurance, so I go where they go by ability to pay. So I am sortta stuck in a way. But my last therapist, I knew I was just not getting anyplace. So I told her so, even thou it was hard. I am just soooooooo tired of this whole game, that it has motivated me enough to push myself more. I want to accomplish some real ground this time.

Thank you for taking the time to explain it to me, why I didn't get it first ??????????

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Mon, 05-09-2005 - 11:46pm
You hang in there tiny!!!

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