*Triggers* bad private message

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Registered: 05-14-2003
*Triggers* bad private message
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Wed, 06-29-2005 - 7:02pm

Shes concern with me spending so much time on the depression/psychology boards, which I totally disagree with her on that. Don't know if shes trying to be nice or something else. Wanted to share our convestion.

> >
> >Whomever you are. I understand where you are coming from, but not
> >the stage yet. Thank you.
> >>
> >>I see from your boards and posts that you are very interested in
> >>children. It is extremely important to take care of your mental
> >>health issues before having children. It scares me to read all of
> >>the support groups for mental health that you are on. Keep in mind
> >>that depression is hereditary as well. Think about the child first.

> >
> >Whomever you are. I understand where you are coming from, but not
> >the stage yet. Thank you.I have both good psychologist and psychiatrist. No, I'm not in college at the moment, disagree with your statement on very helpfully for self-esteem and the mind. College isn't for everyone. Don't have my own place yet and not ready for it at this time. Thank you.

> I hope that you have a good psychologist and psychiatrist. They are like shoes that they do not all fit and you should keep trying until you find one that does.
>
> Are you in college or have you gone? I think that would be very helpful for your mind and self esteem. And having your own place to live. Would have a huge positive impact for you as well.
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> Best wishes

I have both good psychologist and psychiatrist. No, I'm not in college at the moment, disagree with your statement on very helpfully for self-esteem and the mind. College isn't for everyone. Don't have my own place yet and not ready for it at this time. Thank you.

~Jessica
~Jessica
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Registered: 01-26-2005
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 9:13pm

Edit, edit. I'm editing all my posts tonight. I think I'm having an off-night for advice. Never mind...

Renee




Edited 6/29/2005 10:15 pm ET ET by snickybun
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 9:30pm

Hi, Jessica! Whoever this person is, I am sure they had good intentions. Much like I think *you* have good intentions. When I answer posts & even as I'm answering this one, I have good intentions. It may seem like advice, but as an adult you should use your knowledge & realize that it is just an opinion from someone who isn't an expert. This person thought they were helping you, but it seems that it was a bit unkind IMHO. It probably would have hurt my feelings too, if they talked to me like that.


I know that you have a good pdoc & *T* & that you're getting the best care & treatment. You owe this person no explanations. We all need to *grow a bristle on our backs* like my gramma used to say. We have to be tough. Don't let this person spoil the good times you have here on iVillage or the great posts you have given us to enjoy. Try to put a period on this & move on. We care about you & will be here for you. Good luck & GBU! (((hugs))) jan



 

 


 



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Registered: 05-14-2003
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 9:32pm

Jan,

Thank you.

~Jessica
~Jessica
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Registered: 04-07-2003
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 10:03pm
Jessica NOT everyone is KIND!!
You do what is best for you!!
Take care, Judy
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Registered: 07-21-2004
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 10:18pm
Hey Jessica! I am in total agreement with Jan. I love reading your posts! And we are here for you! How is your blog goin' by-the-way? hugs,shasta
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Registered: 05-14-2003
Thu, 06-30-2005 - 7:07pm

Shasta,

Thank you and my blog is going good. Today, went to see a brain doctor and going have a in/out patient eeg and MRI as well.

~Jessica
~Jessica
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Registered: 07-21-2004
Thu, 06-30-2005 - 8:10pm
Hi Jessica, Sorry to hear you are having to have those tests. I hope you don't mind me asking but how come you had to see a brain doctor? I just wanted you to know I care, and please feel free to post anytime. I hope you are feeling well! BIG HUG!! shasta