Bachelor Party Anxiety
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Bachelor Party Anxiety
| Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:09pm |
My doctor diagnosed me with Generalized Anxiety Disorder because I worry ALL OF THE TIME. When I started dating my fiancee almost 4 years ago, I went through a really hard time with me thinking he was going to cheat on me and all those other thoughts. My doctor put me on Celexa and I was pretty good. I noticed I was hitting a plateau so now I'm currently on Effexor. I would still have normal jealous thoughts. We got engaged awhile ago and now all of the anxiety is back. I am now worrying about the bachelor party. Will he go to a strip club? Will he get a lapdance? My wedding is over a year away! I have even been getting down about the wedding because I don't want to think about his bachelor party. I hate strip clubs and all that scene. I have been freaking out the last couple of days. Thinking about him going to see strippers. I really need help here. How do I get these thoughts out of my head??? Also, we were out to a pub on Saturday night and to get in line in front of him to get a drink, a girl flashed him. I was so angry and it wasn't even his fault. I was mad for the entire night. I just keep thinking of him looking at this girls breasts. It's killing me that I can't get all of these thoughts out of my mind... How do I deal with this??? HELP!!!

Oh my, I am totally the same way. I wish I could give you advice, but I can only tell you that you are not alone. I do the exact same thing. I am big time worrier about everything. I have the jealous worries too. I get furious if a sleazy looking girl is around my husband and he sees her or if he sees something on TV. I hate the strip club scene and all that crap like the Hooters restaurant chain and all of that. I worried myself sick about my husband having a bachelor party even though he told me he was not going to. I still question him to this day about his past, things I should not even worry about. When he is around other guys or he and I are out, I turn on my "radar" and look for bad things that I am afraid he will see. It can really bring you down. I know how you feel. I have been told over and over again that I am insecure. I actually feel that I am in good shape and that I am not ugly. So, I feel like this is more than insecurity for me.
Kim