False Alarm

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Registered: 01-26-2005
False Alarm
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Fri, 07-08-2005 - 7:25pm

Last night I posted that my husband got offered a job. False alarm. They took it back for medical reasons. I can't go more into detail.

I could type a post a mile long, but I can see my marriage failing before my very eyes, and I feel like I'm going to fall apart myself. I've seen it coming, but I'm tryng to hold it together, even though I don't even want to. Trying to think of the kids.

This might seem like the wrong forum to post in, but I had the worst panic attack of my life over my marriage problems, and lately I feel the symptoms coming again. I am scared. I'm scared because my husband won't get a job, though he only has 2 weeks unemployment left, and scared for my marriage to end. It will hurt the kids. He will play rough and dirty if it happens (husband).

Please, pray for me.

Renee

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Registered: 04-07-2003
In reply to: snickybun
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 9:39pm
Renee I am so sorry for your troubles now!
I know my anxiety would be increased with a problem
like yours! I guess you have to weigh the good and bad
as far as your husband goes. A unhappy marriage is worse
for children than being sepearated. And it is worse for you!!
Maybe your therapist can help you now. Take care and keep
us posted and step up the things you do to relax!! Judy
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: snickybun
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 10:37pm
Oh {{{{{{{{{{Renee}}}}}}}}}}}} You have all of my prayers. I pray that this rough time will pass in all of it's aspects.


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Registered: 05-18-2005
In reply to: snickybun
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 10:42pm
Renee, I am so sorry for what you are going thru. That's an awful lot on your shoulders. I know what it's like to be going thru some of that. My ds & dil are going thru the same stuff. 3 years ago, he lost his job, so he lost his insurance, then they had marriage problems, got back together, she was diagnosed with breast cancer, now they are legally separated again. She is physically OK, but she is also a little bi-polar and BPD. So things are falling apart around them. My ds is hanging on by a thread, she has lost all sense of direction. There are 2 children involved, and he is trying to keep things normal as possible for them. What a struggle, plus I have anxiety disorder and this really doesn't help that at all. So Renee, I know exactly what you are going thru. Thoughts and prayers for you, and keep us posted. Jan
Jan
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Registered: 03-11-2004
In reply to: snickybun
Sat, 07-09-2005 - 7:41am



 

 


 



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Registered: 01-26-2005
In reply to: snickybun
Sat, 07-09-2005 - 11:39am

Thanks ladies, for your replies.

I am very nervous and upset and sad today. I will probably retreat into myself for a few days, as I usually do. So don't be worried if I am not on for a few days.

Renee