Please don't worry about us, Suz. Just take care of yourself.
It must be really hard to deal with your dh. Frankly, I don't know how you keep it all together. Many of the things you both are experiencing are normal to the situation. His neediness & your anger/depression.
Suz- I was so glad to read your post. I know you are going thru an extremely hard time. And I am so sorry to hear that your dh (and you) are feeling so lousy. What a hard time, my heart goes out to you. Your dh probably only feels like eating if 'you' make his food, because it is a comfort to him that it was made by 'you'. I know that must be so tiring, and stressful. I wished I could give you guys a well deserved vacation, where you both were free of pain,sickness and worry. And Suz-You are "entitled" to have a 'lousy day and be in a lousy mood!' So don't feel bad about that at all! Do not feel any guilt there! We care and love you and will always be here to listen. You are allowed to feel 'mad, angry, p.o.'d, and sad'. If you ever want to chat, please feel free to email me anytime. I will be there for you to listen. <3 Hope to hear from you soon, we will be here for you always! Praying and thinking of you. love, shasta
I do miss reading your posts but you have so much going on now. You need to take care of your dh and yourself. You are so great just for thinking of us but we understand. Frankly I can't even fathom what you are going through and it just shows that you are of great character to check in here also.
I will keep you and dh in all my prayers and please just take care of yourself and you certianlly are allowed to have a bad day.
Suz You have a huge amount of stress in your life right now! A bad day is allowed!! I imagine that having someone depend on you constantly is very stressful. That is what I put my poor hubby through when I was really sick 10 years ago. God Bless you both! Suz take care of yourself too! Judy
I'm so glad you're keeping us up to date on how you are doing, Suz. Though you may not post as often, I hope what you're reading here is giving you some peace as you deal with your day-to-day challenges. Just know we're all thinking of you and your DH, OK? Try and make some time for you to rest and recharge. I know for me that makes all the difference in my mood.
Please don't worry about us, Suz. Just take care of yourself.
It must be really hard to deal with your dh. Frankly, I don't know how you keep it all together. Many of the things you both are experiencing are normal to the situation. His neediness & your anger/depression.
I was so glad to read your post. I know you are going thru an extremely hard time. And I am so sorry to hear that your dh (and you) are feeling so lousy. What a hard time, my heart goes out to you. Your dh probably only feels like eating if 'you' make his food, because it is a comfort to him that it was made by 'you'. I know that must be so tiring, and stressful. I wished I could give you guys a well deserved vacation, where you both were free of pain,sickness and worry.
And Suz-You are "entitled" to have a 'lousy day and be in a lousy mood!' So don't feel bad about that at all! Do not feel any guilt there!
We care and love you and will always be here to listen. You are allowed to feel 'mad, angry, p.o.'d, and sad'.
If you ever want to chat, please feel free to email me anytime. I will be there for you to listen. <3 Hope to hear from you soon, we will be here for you always!
Praying and thinking of you. love, shasta
Suz,
Please don't worry about us here.
I do miss reading your posts but you have so much going on now. You need to take care of your dh and yourself. You are so great just for thinking of us but we understand. Frankly I can't even fathom what you are going through and it just shows that you are of great character to check in here also.
I will keep you and dh in all my prayers and please just take care of yourself and you certianlly are allowed to have a bad day.
Lots of hugs and prayers coming your way!
right now! A bad day is allowed!! I imagine that
having someone depend on you constantly is very
stressful. That is what I put my poor hubby through
when I was really sick 10 years ago. God Bless you both!
Suz take care of yourself too! Judy
I'm so glad you're keeping us up to date on how you are doing, Suz. Though you may not post as often, I hope what you're reading here is giving you some peace as you deal with your day-to-day challenges. Just know we're all thinking of you and your DH, OK? Try and make some time for you to rest and recharge. I know for me that makes all the difference in my mood.
Many hugs to ya,
Kendra