Another Day with Anxiety - Vent

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Another Day with Anxiety - Vent
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Fri, 08-05-2005 - 3:41pm

I hope that some of my posts have helped other people as I know there is always someone who will post back when I need it. If anyone remembers the settlement on my house did not go through last week. We are still dealing with the same lying, incompetent mortgage lady as we were told that it would take longer if we switched companies completely. We received papers in the mail last night from the actual people that our loan application is with and the papers said the exact opposite of some of the things she is telling us re: points, pre-payment penalties, amount needed for closing, etc. She told my DH today that we will get new papers soon. I just don't want to waste everyone's time going to settlement and then not going through with it. I just think we are going to have to be extra careful of what we are signing if the papers are presented at closing. Anyway, I should not have to deal with such dis-trust in someone who is making money off of us.

On top of everything else I am still taking xanax everyday and my drs office called in the wrong dosage the other day which basically gave me five days worth instead of ten. I am schedule to do the "intake" process at a mental health facility on Tuesday and will be assigned a pdoc and therapist. I cannot wait. I am so tired of calling my primary doc. Her staff probably thinks I'm crazy (which I guess technically I am ;)). Guess I just needed to get it off my chest. I cannot take much more of this guessing game as far as moving and getting my anxiety under control.

Alison

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Fri, 08-05-2005 - 6:33pm

I'm glad you feel comfortable coming here to vent, Alison. I know that this uncertainty & fear is really stressful & allowing the anxiety to get a firm grip. If you can just get through this challenging time, I predict smooth sailing. It's this period of finding your balance that's always the worst. Good luck. I sure hope there's better days ahead:) (((hugs))) jan


P.S. I am so darn nosey! Is the pink ribbon for you

 

 


 



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Sat, 08-06-2005 - 12:27am
Hi Alison!

Blessings, Suz   Posts in this Community   

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Sat, 08-06-2005 - 1:09pm

Thanks for your words of encouragement. I will make it through somehow. I am being aggressive about treatment and besides my medications have started to try acupuncture. The first treament won't cure me since my ails are chronic and have been around a long time. But, I am going back at least a few more times to see if it works at all.

The pink ribbon is in memory of my grandmother and in honor of a friend who is a cancer survivor. Not a nosy question at all.

Thanks again.

Alison

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Sat, 08-06-2005 - 1:18pm

Yes. It we ever make it to the settlement table, it will be a long one. I am going to look at every detail before signing since I have lost my faith and trust in our broker. Too bad it has to be this way. Hopefully, once we are through with all of this we will be able to make the move the happy time it should be for our family.

Thanks again.

Alison