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| Sun, 08-14-2005 - 10:23am |
Hi I am just going to vent a bit!
I got a huge packet of my father's trust accounting
now I AM NOT AN ACCOUNTANT but I am supposed to "look it over"
and make comments on it! I had some records of what was spent on
my father and sister some receipts but they do not appear to be
the same as theirs! LIKE 100,000 off!! I AM FREAKING OUT!
Yesterday we went to an India fest it was sooooooo hot
thought it was inside took grandbaby too! In an auditorium hot as heck
baby got henna tatoo then we left since the dancing was an hour off!
Van was stuck in the mud 45 minutes of pulling it out!!
SO ANNOYING AND MISERABLE!!
My question is this what do I DO???
I live in Florida the accounting is in NY State
do I go there? I own a cottage with sister in law who is suing me
over the accounting! This means telling her I am using the cottage
the COURT DATE IS AUG 30th--- I don't know whether to go or trust
my lawyer???? My lawyer is excellent but------
I have not faced the loss of my sister very well and I know going
to the cottage will be very emotional for me as well as the court date!!
I am having signs of increased anxiety- fear in a restaurant that was
crowded etc! I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT I CAN TAKE???
What would you do??? Need ideas FAST!! THANKS, Judy
I got a huge packet of my father's trust accounting
now I AM NOT AN ACCOUNTANT but I am supposed to "look it over"
and make comments on it! I had some records of what was spent on
my father and sister some receipts but they do not appear to be
the same as theirs! LIKE 100,000 off!! I AM FREAKING OUT!
Yesterday we went to an India fest it was sooooooo hot
thought it was inside took grandbaby too! In an auditorium hot as heck
baby got henna tatoo then we left since the dancing was an hour off!
Van was stuck in the mud 45 minutes of pulling it out!!
SO ANNOYING AND MISERABLE!!
My question is this what do I DO???
I live in Florida the accounting is in NY State
do I go there? I own a cottage with sister in law who is suing me
over the accounting! This means telling her I am using the cottage
the COURT DATE IS AUG 30th--- I don't know whether to go or trust
my lawyer???? My lawyer is excellent but------
I have not faced the loss of my sister very well and I know going
to the cottage will be very emotional for me as well as the court date!!
I am having signs of increased anxiety- fear in a restaurant that was
crowded etc! I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT I CAN TAKE???
What would you do??? Need ideas FAST!! THANKS, Judy

(((Judy))) This has been such a long drawn out affair. I can well imagine your stress & anxiety. It has taken it's toll & for that I'm very sorry.
Hey Judy,
I know that this has been hard on you.You know that
Blessings, Suz
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((Judy)) With an excellent attorney, I would think you wouldn't have to be present. He should be able to get a proper accounting and have any additional info faxed to him. Of course, he could tell you if you need to go or not. I just went through something similar with my worker's comp claim & I didn't make the trip to CT from NC. My atty. handled it perfectly well without me & called me as soon as court was done. He had all my questions answered & has never been more than a phone call away. I didn't want to dredge up all the past memories and set my progress back again. I"m truly glad I didn't go. Sending P&PT your way ...
Sheri Ann
Sheri Ann