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| Sat, 09-03-2005 - 10:39am |
Hi everyone,
How are you? Hoping you all have lots of fun things planned for your holiday weekend.
I was hoping you could send me some advice. I am feeling extremly nervous because my friend is mad at me. She is upset that I put my name on a wait list for a class for our kids. Truth is, her child is six months younger than mine, and when I signed up for the class, her child would have been too young. Now she is acting like I "betrayed" her or something. This friend is very vocal about her feelings and calls me to the carpet on every wrong move I make. I do want to take this class with her in January, but now she is mad about it and avoiding me. (her m.o.) We did discuss taking the class together months ago, and realized her son was too young to start when my son could. I don't want to have it out over a dumb baby class, but I know it is going to be a big "talk." My heart is already beating faster and I am starting to panic. I already apologized and told her I didn't mean to make her feel left out, but her son wasn't old enough to take the class that starts in September. He can start in January. I always feel like I am saying i'm sorry over and over again just so she won't be mad at me. I don't know how to let things go, and it is ruining my whole day. UGGGGG.
Thanks for reading.
Love, Jolie

Thank you for putting things so clearly for me. I know I shouldn't worry about a true friend, but it feels like it is out of my control sometimes. Thanks for the great advice. I appreciate it.
Love, JD
Hi Jolie!
Blessings, Suz
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I agree with Suz and think you should think about your
friend and how she makes YOU feel!! Is she good for you??
You need to be around people who make you happy NOT STRESSED!!
No one deserves that! You can chose your friends--- or
find new ones who care- Ask yourself why you value her
friendship what need is she filling??? IF NONE LOSE HER!
YOU DID NOTHING WRONG!! Judy