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| Sun, 09-11-2005 - 11:00am |
I just found out that someone I was very close to has died in a car accident out of state. I'm sitting here crying & just can't seem to stop. I feel absolutely helpless. What a horrible feeling. I couldn't sleep last night & was browsing the obituaries for our newspaper in CT and there it was. I'm angry because nobody thought to call me (he died on the 5th of September). We dated for 2 years and my best friend had fixed us up. Like Danielle and her friend, we don't really talk anymore after a disagreement. She has always been my best friend. I called her this a.m. & got a busy signal, so I waited a few minutes and called back and her machine picked up. Of course, now I'm thinking she's avoiding me still or just doesn't care about how I feel and that's making it even worse for me. I hope she calls back. I'm sure Danielle & Jolie can relate to this! Oh, well, had to vent to someone. Dh is working all day and I'm kind of glad, but if he was here, I'd stop crying! Thanks for listening gals/guys!
Sheri Ann

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I have been in almost exactly this situation. Several years ago a very close friend of mine was killed in a car accident. At the time, I was not speaking with several of our mutual friends (dispute with one) and thus not speaking to him a lot at the time. I think the distance helped me to better deal with it. All of us (his friends) came together at that time to honor our dear friend. It helped to renew the friendships that had been put on hold over the dispute with one of them. I know my friend is smiling from heaven that his friends all put aside their differences and pulled together to remember him.
I too had to know the details and got them, even though the situation was not pretty it helped to know what exactly the circumstances were.
You will be in my thoughts as I know this is a very difficult thing to get past.
Alison
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