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i need a talkin to!
| Fri, 09-16-2005 - 6:58pm |
Hi everyone.
Hope all is well with you all. Things have been crazy over here. My husband just opened his doors for his new business, my son started preschool and I am trying to get my life in some sort of order. I worry about my mom since my father died (8 weeks ago). My anxiety has been coming in waves. I am always waiting for the other shoe to fall. I am constantly thinking I did something wrong, or someone is mad at me. I know it is a terrible way to live. WHen I try to talk myself out of it, it just doesn't work. Somebody, I need a talkin to! Gimme the tough love talk. Please.
Love, JD

changing in your family. Sooooooo time for you!!
You need to find something fun to do something to look forward to!
Grab your mom and go out to lunch or see a movie both of you will
feel better!
Trust me the shoe will drop.... if you wait for it!
Your father died recently give yourself a break!! Take care, Judy
I know where you are coming from..
I am sorry to hear about your Father... you need to remember that the anxiety you are feeling about your Mom and worrying is normal anxiety. You have reason to be upset an anxious.
Maybe your feeling about people not liking you is part of the way your grieving and worrying about your Mom. Just a thought..
You know, I am a believer in talking to somone if you are having an issue about something. Maybe if you just try talking to the various people and telling them how you feel (depending on the person). Maybe the way you feel could be talked about and you coculd have peace with it all. I'm pretty sure that everyone will tell you that they DO LIKE YOU and not to worry anymore.
Take Care,
Hugs,
You are so sweet. Thank you for the nice message, I really appreciate it. How are you feeling? Are things going better for you? Have you experienced anymore anxiety attacks? Hopefully not.
Lots of love, JD
Ah, tough love is no fun. Just think that others are too concerned with themselves to be mad at you. Sometimes we become hyperaware and think everyone's "looking" at us when they aren't. They're just going about their business. I should hope they'd let you know if they had an issue with you anyway!
It sounds like you have a lot on your plate, so who would blame you for being tense? Have you discussed your concerns with your husband? Carve out some time to pamper yourself and just breathe. Sorry to hear about your dad. Good luck with the new business! :)
Kendra